What I am telling you is that not every white person who moves to your area is looking to chase you out or destroy your cultures or communities, which is exactly what you said. That those are the only reasons. They are also not reason that every white person has. THAT is what I am actually saying is untrue, the motive…

People looking for inexpensive places to live are not out to destroy cultures or communities. They are looking for inexpensive places to live.

I can’t find anywhere that details the evidence enough to say if it makes sense or not. At what angle were the entry and exit wounds? There doesn’t seem to be any discussion in the articles cited about the forensic evidence presented. (If any.)

A) Shoes pick up germ too, that’s why I compared feet to shoes and not other body parts. Because it’s bare feet instead of shoes, not instead of other body parts.

B) If feet smell that’ rude. It’’s also rude if your shoes smell. Smell is it’s own issue.

C) Do ugly people need to wear masks for you too?

How is it unhygienic? Are feet picking up way more dirt than shoes do? How is it rude? Because you don’t like it?

Gingersnaps. The ginger and cinnamon have such strong flavors it really masks the weed.

No one in TV or movies ever wears their seatbelt.

Where I live the library doesn’t even charge late fees for children’s books. To anyone.

How would that situation be immoral? What is the logic behind that stance?

That episode is so bad and so not like the others. I always warn newbies away from it entirely.

Sure but that’s quite a bit different than once a week.

Dirty dishes for a week is a health hazard. Cat pee in the sink is a health hazard. Dirty litter boxes are a health hazard. You don’t have to be OCD to not be gross, or to point out genuine health hazards.

Many people offered specific advice about the cat. An no one blamed her for the cat’s actions, they blame her for HER lack of action about the cats behavior.

We are talking about ongoing behavior here. If your regular behavior is as was described, then you are not a kind and thoughtful person. It doesn’t require perfection, it does require that it not be a regular thing.

Putting dirty dishes in the washer is doing the dishes. And you certainly don’t have to be “obsessed with cleanliness” to think it’s gross to leave dirty dishes out for a week or let your cat pee in a sink. The cobwebs in my house will attest that I’m a bit slack on my house cleaning, but I do the dishes daily and I…

I also think people conflate “don’t know how to clean.” with “don’t want to clean” and use the former as an excuse for the latter.  

Ok, but are they sitting out attracting flies? Or did you put them in the dishwasher while you waited for it to fill up and run it?

I’d call putting dirty dishes in the dishwasher, even if it’s not run because it’s not full, “doing the dishes”.

Every cleaning product ever sold has instruction it for it’s use.

This person knows how to clean, they just don’t WANT to.

Oh and PS - my terrible step father charmed everyone he met too.

He was not a good person.

kind, thoughful,