I am sorry you had to go through that. I don’t like lying and not telling you he was married is a huge terrible deal and honestly you did the right thing by running away. Too many women get caught up and being the other woman long term is difficult, it makes you miserable and it is very, very sad. I have a relative…

In my family we speak honestly of the dead so if you were a miserable shit in life most def after you’re in the ground you will be still known as a shit. My great grandmother did not like all the sainthood belatedly laid on the departed and never held back about her late husband.

Back when we were poor we drank Kool Aid. Back home in Trinidad we got one glass of juice a day other times we had to drink water so that pitcher of Kool Aid better last a week and if it was not we had to go get sour orange or limes and add that juice to stretch that Kool Aid.

The government has to make an effort to get the drugs and guns out of the country, but if they are in on it it will make no difference what we the regular shmegular people want.

I don’t think Kush will be allowed to leave the country soon since there are investigations right now with his name on top.

The terrible thing about it is the elites on the islands are causing the problems. There was an airline Aritran that had been running drugs through Trinidad and Guyana on their flights. They got found out of course and the airline was shut down. One of my many relatives is in the police back home a yacht got…

I know it is terrible. I remember growing up in Trinidad and it was so nice and peaceful.

If you don’t want to be spoken about honestly then don’t do stuff that will reflect on you poorly it’s just that simple. Especially near the end of your life when the people will remember what you did at that time far more vividly than the stuff that you did earlier in life. McCain I don’t feel sorry for I cannot when…

It is stuff like this that makes people paranoid about going home to the islands. Barbados is so much better or has much less press about people getting randomly shot for no reason. This is sad they need to get the drugs and guns out of the Caribbean.

The cake has been made and is being soaked in wine and rum as we speak.

She got pregnant with her twins.

Stay away from that Green Party right now Jill Stein in currently under investigation for ties to Russia in this past election.

Good weddings are about free alcohol and good music. My cousin got married in September it was a backyard wedding because they wanted everyone to drink and have a good time. I got my drinks on I danced, the food was excellent. I didn’t get drunk and one of the servers was trying Hell hard to get a date with one of…

Yep I live in Suffolk and people out here are super pissed and King knows he’s toast. All the R voters out here are so angry because we already pay higher taxes and now no deductions King is so out of here.

If anyone chooses sex work I have no issue with it. However, the word here is choose, I want people to be happy with their lives and make choices that please them with no judgment. I don’t use my religion as a bludgeon and I cannot judge others Jesus Himself spent time with people considered “unacceptable” by the…

I wish the Caribbean could get its act together. If I leave the U.S. I just want to go back. I have a friend from Jamaica and he wants to do the same when he retires next year. But the drugs moving through the countries make it hard and dangerous for us to go back.

I am from the West Indies and traditional medicine is pretty common no matter where it came from. Growing up sprains were “rubbed” by the always busy man who did that in the area. Bush tea, herbs to be rubbed on, put on, boiled and bathed in. Western medicine was usually done last. I have a relative who is a doctor in…

Die Hard/Working Girl: Work Hard or Die Trying Girl the Musical or go home.

It’s partially the climate and hurricanes (coconut trees survive hurricanes better than most others because they bend). Plus back when we were all poor coconut trees would feed the family (the water would be drunk, the jelly eaten when young and soft or older and hard) and the dry husk between the skin and nut could…

Everyone uses coconut oil it’s pretty common since coconut trees are nearly in everyone’s back yard.