Thank you. I don’t know if any of the women in this thread will accept your opinion, but you sound like someone who gets it. Thanks again.

Yeah. Boredatwork wrote 3 days ago that,

Fwiw, I wrote a book a few years back and the first thing I did, literally on day one, was quit Netflix. I’d still be writing that thing if I hadn’t, lol. (It’s being released later this year.)

You might consider going on more “random” dates - use Tinder or what not - and treat them not as high-stakes encounters, but practice, since you are not necessarily emotionally invested in these people.

lol

To be honest, the next time I hook up with a woman, I am going to go heavy on the oral and finger action. In fact, I might not even go for vaginal sex at all. This will build a comfort level and a higher degree of trust between us, so that we will subsequently have more invested in each other, and I will be more…

Hi, not sure if you want to keep talking about this, but here are more thoughts on me and my expectations.

Yeah, you are right. Men do not really talk to each other about sex. In a sense, men are in fact more gentlemanly than pop culture will have us believe. There is a great passage in the Philip Roth novel, “the Human Stain,” where Roth says that men do not talk to each other about sex out of a fear of being envied,…

We get 480 days of paid leave. 660 if you have twins. 390 days with about 80% of your salary (up to a cap) and 90 days with a small allowance. 90 days are reserved for each parent, if they don’t use them they can’t be transferred to the other parent and are forfeited. You don’t have to use the benefits consequently or…

Can’t wait for centrists to keep on pushing away the most engaged slice of their potential electorate and then react with insulted astonishment when somehow they continue hemorrhaging seats across the country.

I think a lot of young women are angry and frustrated because it genuinely seems that men hate a lot of us. Hate! Sexual assault, rape, bad sex, physical violence, insults and anxiety stemming from impossibly high standards across the board...all rites of passage for most women; all at the hands of men.

Not any kind of brag or humble but I’ve fucked both and straight women aren’t great at sex. Dudes are just easy AF to get off. Completely celibate now for five years, don’t miss fucking much. Miss cuddling, which I am dope at.

Hetero millenial here. I did too, but honestly, sometimes it was just like ‘it’s fine, I’m good. No orgasm, but still satisfied.’ also, sometimes it just isn’t happening, and you have to accept the things you cannot change :p

Thank you. I think that it is important to consider that when someone is “wrong” we should consider why that person is wrong and still be empathetic. Perhaps that “wrongness” comes from weird socialization.

You know what fucking sucks? Spending 12 hours straight in a 120 degree kitchen and then getting on your knees and eating out your girlfriend for 45 minutes only to be told to piss off and it’s not gonna happen. Sorry if that doesn’t arouse me and won’t get your delicate little flower off. It takes more than one…

There’s definitely a way to be communicative but not harsh. It’s not nice to tell anyone, “That was awful!” obviously.

The worst thing is being with a girl who tells you after 40 mins of attention that she actually came ages ago, silently.

Oh man but actually it’s this pretty shitty cycle too...because some girls have been conditioned to lie about their orgasms for myriad reasons. So as a young guy I got a lot of confusion messages on what worked and didn’t.

Haha, no bragging here. Just chiming in to say that I dated two women in their mid-30's when I was 20-22 who were very adamant about teaching me how to not be a selfish piece of shit.