There’s a labyrinth of hallways and lots of velvety decor. Or there was when I was there 25 years ago.

I have 10 x’s the experience as an escort (versus coach) and those clients were hundreds of men from all walks of life, cultures, financial class, etc. They didn’t come to me for help, they came to me for companionship. They were normal guys like men you work with or are neighbors and friends with.

I’ll check out his history, thanks. But I stand by my comments here. As far as THIS thread, I agree with him.

I’m sure you’re right. I’m curious about the age group of your partners. My clients have always been 40-70, though lately, as a coach, I see men in their 30s too.

I coach men in getting out of the performance mindset, back into the pleasure mindset. Into embodiment and mindfulness, out of a goal-oriented approach to sex. Out of their head (and the parade of thoughts: “am I doing this right? Will I come? Will I come to soon? Am I inadequate”) and into their bodies. Focusing on…

Why does he have to figure it out. Why wouldn’t you just tell him. Or do you not know?

I’m going to repeat something a commenter told me years ago that I liked so much I never forgot it: Thank you for being awesome all over this thread.