bodysnark...:(

Huh. I agree with you in that, in the trailer, the actors are totally overwhelmed by the visuals. But I think if there's one Jazz Age classic movie adaptation that SHOULD, or at least can afford to, be made with lots of special effects, this is it. Hemingway would never work, for obvious reasons. But this- I loved the…

Because this matters. So much.

"If I was Sharon Stone I'd walk into a modelling agency's men's division and order directly from their books like a menu, but the actress prefers her guys free-range and left a Vogue Brazil party with model Martin Mica. Oh, to have her life. "

Haha, of course. It's always tough to form words well when you feel personally attacked. Just know that your feelings are totally legitimate, as feelings always are. :)

That's kind of mean and unnecessary. This is a perfectly fair reaction to a video that undoubtedly made many of us feel exactly what Honeybee74 was feeling. She just had the guts to out it out there. It IS an unfair standard of beauty, and it DOES make people mad that this is what our society holds up at the goal.…

It is my biggest pet peeve with Jezebel and with the Gawker sites in general. I mean, fucking hell! Why??

My thoughts exactly.

Haha, yes. Yes.

Reading this, I felt like I was reading a version of my own experience with Kappa. Which has been nothing but positive. Thanks for this comment- it's so important that people differentiate between the people and the chapter in question, where, certainly, a toxic environment can exist, and the national organization as…

For real. My reasons for joining a sorority were

"Let's take this vagina for a test drive, eh?"

YES.

Ahahaha, 9 boxes of tampons a year? I know I have a ridiculously heavy flow, but that number is quite low for me. I'd say I go through about a box or two of tampons per period and maybe a box and a half of pads.

I appreciate this.

I'm in almost the exact same place, to be honest. I may not be able to help very much, but sometimes just knowing that there are others out there dealing with the same shit can be comforting, encouraging, and strengthening. Also, remember, and remind yourself constantly of the old idiom: "the perfect is the enemy of…

Yes, I was going to say the exact same thing. That's really not ok in my book, and I'm surprised that there weren't more commenters upset about this.

Right? I would do it for FREE.

And THAT right there is the crux of my problem with this article. It's too fucked up for words. I can't believe they had the audacity to publish this and then defend it, when publishing the photo of a woman without sure knowledge of her consent goes against everything I always thought Jezebel was about.

Right? I would like an apology, too. Or at least an acknowledgment of the controversy, when so many commenters are upset about this. It honestly makes me want to quit reading Jezebel. I've been a devotee for five years.