He stated that many good cops are “afraid” to be speak up b/c they will lose their jobs and the ability to provide for their families.

Throwing allies under the bus

In short, the world is full of dangerous people that want to hurt POC physically and economically. Meanwhile, our white allies are in their feelings about it all, so it’s annoying people of color. Got it. So now that that’s out the way, when are we going to move past think-pieces and memes about white privilege and…

And if you do insist you are “one of the good ones” feel free to speak with your money. Refinery21 has a good list that includes the Charlottesville NAACP and the Charlottesville Solidarity Legal Fund.

When women breastfeed, strong flavors like garlic or curry can change the flavor of their milk. Which sounds yucky, but babies actually love it and tend to eat more if there's a little more nuance in the taste.

Quoted from the great oral sex connoisseur of our our time, Lil' Kim:

Get down there already! And don't be shy to take the first plunge.women LOVE an enthusiastic partner, it helps them feel accepted/confident/even sexier, which in turn makes the sex better. By not going down you are shooting yourself in the foot. Also, be aware many of us won't give a guy who won't eat pussy a second…

If you wait for them to ask, you'll be waiting forever. Shit's awkward. Just get in there and take care of business, bro. We've got to be enthusiastic in our reciprocity.

Not all women like receiving oral, but a lot do. It can have kind of a stigma attached to it though, especially for those who grew up in more conservative environments or have been involved with men who didn't like to perform oral. I think a lot of women are also nervous about making demands sexually (I know I am)…

As a girl who likes a man to take the lead in the bedroom, I would advise just going for it. Do it first, before it is your BJ time. Just lay her back and get down there!

It's pretty much just good etiquette to reciprocate; they shouldn't have to ask you point-blank to take your turn. Get your head down there and get to work. If you're worried about technique, a simple "tell me what you like" goes a long way.

Question, for serious, from gay man ignorance: do straight guys try to stay kempt and fresh down there? It seems like there's kind of an intense cultural thing about vaginas but nobody's making jokes about how a lot of guys need a good ball wash and an occasional trim. Am I underestimating my straight gender…