It’s very well written and that’s just one of the reasons it’s clearly fake. However, it still creeped me the fuck out. The other reason I feel like it’s fake is that it’s EXACTLY the type of thing I’d have thought of doing in High School, like “wouldn’t this be fucking hilarious to scare the shit out of someone this…

I was just watching Near Dark on Friday and had a long discussion last night with my brother about how amazing Bill is in that movie, especially the bar scene. He plays such a great vampire, I was also noticing that Ian Somerhalder from Vampire Diaries totally stole his act from Paxton in Near Dark.

Oh I’m aware they do. I’ve had that particular insult lobbed at me a few times myself, or the “you’re ugly anyway.” Really? then why were you just hitting on me? People are exhausting.

It’s a thing with some girls they are obsessed with calling dudes who aren’t into them gay. Like they can’t imagine a guy who isn’t it to them being straight. Also they think they can just tell that a guy is gay, I think it’s defense mechanism against potential rejection because they know how awful they are.

I’m so glad you put this up because what was posted was so confusing. It was hard to tell how the girl was being obnoxious at all. This makes much more sense. And yes that’s such a shitty way to start a conversation, good god I’d have run away too.

I’m glad to hear that you are taking care of yourself. It’s so hard to do that when dealing with things like this. I think the tendency to blame yourself for your kids problems is very strong but in cases like this I feel like the bipolar person needs to learn to sink or swim. The coddling just makes them worse and…

It seems par for the course to use this particular diagnosis like a club you can swing at everyone who supports you. The moment that you point out something they can improve on your told that you don’t get it, and your not supportive and not positive and don’t understand. Personally I feel like if this were my kid, I…

I don’t think this is the same situation at all. Chos job or livelihood wasn’t really on the line here, this was just an email exchange she could have easily ignored. In your situation I can absolutely understand why you would say one thing and feel another way later, it makes sense.

Everyone seems to forget the dust up about Idris Elba playing Heimdall (which he was awesome as), it does go both ways.

Sounds like it’s a pretty common story. With my relative it was a year after a breakup with her first boyfriend ever and things just went to hell. I’ve basically been the fallback person she calls whenever things start getting out of control and it’s not a great position to be in. But luckily in my situation she…

I agree, hindsight and all that. I just don’t understand the point of having the civil conversation and being open and willing to teach as it were and then claiming you were put upon. I don’t think it’s doing us minorities any favors when things like this happen, I find the whole thing to be really ridiculous quite…

There is nothing I despise more on earth then having to make polite chit chat with hair dressers. It’s amazing to me that people have deep relationships with them. That’s my main take away from this.

I’m really sorry you have to deal with that. This relative of mine has wrecked her parents marriage in a very similar fashion. The permissiveness of one parent over the other led to her being totally out of control, manipulative horrible person who has taken years and years to become just somewhat functional and…

I had no idea Cho has been outspoken about this movie and Tilda in particular before this whole thing blew up. So I guess in that sense it’s clearer as to why Tilda would just shoot her an email to try and clear the air I guess.

I think Cho comes off looking worse in this than Tilda. Though my first thought was why on earth would she seek out the opinion of Margaret Cho in the first place? It seems like just such a bizarre out of nowhere email to send to someone. I mean maybe there is some more backstory here that we aren’t getting, but that…

Not sure if he’s bipolar or not, but having a close relative who is I can say it’s really really hard to separate the asshole from the disease. I don’t know to this day how much of their actions are because of being ill or if they are just dicks and the more time goes by the more I want to say they are just an asshole…

Yeah I love book recommendation lists except they just never feature the genres I’m interested in and are the only ones I basically read. Sci fi/fantasy/urban fantasy. I guess it’s not very sophisticated or considered being well read but it’s entertaining, I don’t feel like spending my free time reading serious shit…

I’m seeing Bradley Cooper.

Yeah that’s just people being assholes, nothing wrong with hating on that. I’m beginning to think that a lot of people who hate picky eaters just know really shitty people.

I get that, I guess for me whatever food specific things I like or don’t like I try to not make it a problem for anyone else. I don’t demand anyone make anything special for me or change their plans of where to eat I will take care of myself. I used to be way more picky but have mostly grown out it/learned to deal. I…