No. Those things affect ALL women, and they’re all women’s concerns. Her individual experience does not negate the society-wide effect of men being facilitated and enabled in their desire for committing violence against women.

Please, keep saying this. Say it over and over again until people get it. Sigh.

Because consensual BDSM play has nothing to do with actual rape. Many sex-positive feminists engage in BDSM without it conflicting or cancelling out their feminist politics.

Lots of women have rape fantasies. Please remember that kink shaming is not okay, and neither acting in nor viewing videos simulating rape is an endorsement of actual rape.

Agreed.

Yep. They’re annoying enough without us having that argument before they do it.

You are probably not wrong, but isn’t this the very definition of a straw man argument?

Fuck that. This was the best thing that ever happened to this kid, and he was in no way ‘damaged’ to the point of 15 million dollars.