I had to stop reading and just breath for a moment - worried I’d throw up or cry. Unbelievable. And the fact that he identified a vulnerable population of women who wouldn’t have the language or knowledge to identify or report his digusting behaviour, and purposely targetted them... Gag.

This used to be my attitude. Then I had the two worst, most humiliating experiences of my life with two, different, female gynecologists. One of them was a university health center gynecologist, who told me, a graduate student in her thirties, that I wasn’t at school to get pregnant, and basically called me a slut.…

They do....they stick two fingers up there while palpating your abdomen to check placement of the ovaries and uterus. But it’s NEVER sexual and does not feel so.

I sympathize with having a neighbor you hate, but the social media callout thing is incredibly immature and petty. Grow up.

I don’t care how annoying whatever his habits are, advocating for cyber bullying is disgusting. Also why live in an apartment building in the first place hduff???

Oh this is interesting I didnt know this...

“That’s exactly why the princess fantasy is far from frivolous for women of color, so many of whom grew up in societies that told them they weren’t beautiful or wanted—that the happily ever after ending was not for them.”

The “(vanilla)“ part goes without saying

I’m at the point where I need to see some real statistics as to how often immigration agents have been historically confronted with legitimate violent resistance in the performance of these types of duties (pre-ICE).

I hope they take a hard look at Jay.

I know at least one other male gynecologist who has made comments similar to this. Along the lines of “oh you’re just beautiful down there” or, to a patient’s husband upon learning of negative STI testing during a pregnancy visit, “You really lucked out, she’s clean.” And this guy was a young provider. It’s not just…

This. I’m sure some male gynos are fine and that’s fine but they don’t have vaginas or ovaries or uteruses and they don’t know what it’s like and a book cannot teach that. So, no thank you, male gynos. I’m sure most of you are fine but no.

Do you mean the butt-ler?

See, if this had been San Francisco, she could have just gone outside to grab a pre-made turd from the street instead of making it herself.

Is it possible that you could nudge other alums into finding out about and this and withholding your contributions to the school? Are there prominent, rich alums you could reach out to and ask them also not to contribute? It seems like a threat to the coffers is the only thing that’s going to persuade the school that…

Doctors’ offices should be like gas stations - one giant red NOPE button on the wall, if anybody feels uncomfortable and hits it everything stops for a safety check and the doctors get sprayed with toxic foam.

It’s the mad pooper!

So I see she’s already had some coffee.

Yeah so I saw this guy once in undergrad. He made the exact comment about “tightness” to me and acted like my vagina suctioned his fingers. Shudder.

Arghh this gets me in so many ways... I have an inherent trust for doctors, as I’m sure many of his patients did. Plus that many of the women were seeing a gyno for the first time, and your standard gyno exam involves a human looking at your vagina and just a general plethora or touching and feeling for abnormalities,…