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It’s a good question, but the reality is that most of the women who have the resources to move away from a state don’t need to worry (YET) about these laws. If our state has shitty reproduction laws, we can go to another state for care. I read on Jezebel about a woman who flew to Colorado (? maybe?) for her late-term

I’m having a shitty day and just kinda word vomited all over this page. So that’s my bad because I know it isn’t helpful. I just can’t believe people would support this absolute horror of an administration.

White People. It’s white people. The correct response is ‘what are white people?’.

Here’s the thing- anyone who’s opinion flips on whether or not Trump is a good president (GOD, I still CAN’T BELIEVE THIS HAPPENED) is only changing based on whether or not things are better for them, PERSONALLY. And that’s despicable. “Oh, hate crimes are on the rise, the country is more divided than it has been in

It’s not shocking in the sense that a lack of intimacy can happen in any marriage. What is relevant about is that if president is no longer intimate with his wife then are we to presume that he (and Melania) are either celibate or — (and this is much more likely btw) each has found another person or person(s) to be

truth. the ptsd already runs so deep. tho on the dark comedy RL black mirror side of things it would be a pretty next level plot twist.. if an actual sex-tape of the US Prez were to come out firstly, it would be the literal definition of the laugh-cry emoji... and secondly maybe that could finally be the thing from

Except, with Trump I believe it. She’s not the first person to mention Melania having her own room. Trump himself bragged about how she has her own separate bathroom/bedroom. Melania’s friends have commented that she knew exactly who Donald was when she started dating him: womanizer. I think she married him for the

EVERY married guy, who is looking for some side action, swears up and down that he and the wife don’t have sex anymore.

I think sometimes people feel like they have to fuck themselves out of certain situations if things get sexual. Her spanking him unexpectedly changed the atmosphere, he got horny, and it sounds like her feeling was “dammit, now I have to have sex with him.”. I used to feel that way sometimes, for instance if I started

Her thought process that led to her having sex with him—“I had it coming for making a bad decision for going to someone’s room alone and I just heard the voice in my head, ‘well, you put yourself in a bad situation and bad things happen, so you deserve this’”—sounds exactly like people who defend Weinstein and others

It was such a #metoo moment and she didn’t realize it. She felt she owed him sex because she ended up in a hotel room with him. The internalized misogyny and just...ugh.

EVERY married guy, who is looking for some side action, swears up and down that he and the wife don’t have sex anymore. Maybe it’s true. Maybe it’s not. But that’s what they all say right up there with, “My marriage has been over for years. We’re just roommates now,” and “My wife doesn’t understand me.”

So Stormy said she didn’t have her #metoo moment because she’s not a victim because the sex was consensual but she walked and talked like a victim to me. Trump’s behavior in that hotel was pretty much Harvey Weinstein’s MO. Towards the end when everyone was like “Why should we believe you now you’ve lied three times?”

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Literally the first thing I thought of when she mentions walking in on him watching Shark Week:

My takeaway - She told the truth and she’s got a great lawyer. Oh, and she definitely has some audio/video proof of their relationship. I just hope I never see Trump’s dick. The country’s been through enough.

Given what he’s been accused of in the past I doubt he will see any repercussions for this. As much as you lovely law folks like to believe in the system it only “works” when poor people get accused. 99% of the time the Michael Cohen’s of the world get off scot-free. By all means come back and gloat if I’m wrong on

Attn: Normal People,

There is nothing more difficult than standing in front of a group of people and letting silence be. (I know this from my teaching career...). It’s interesting to see the audience reaction - silence makes people so uncomfortable! Some feel the need to fill it - cheering, chanting etc - until the silence sinks in.

They came prepared, too. They came prepared with a diversity of speakers, from different cities, with different stories – but in service of a common goal, to fight for something better

They’re right about that, too. I was about to do a piece about that, but I’m glad I waited - the kids beat me to it. So I’ll just put a few of the “greatest hits” here, since the kids are clearly making an effort and IMO deserve our support: PWMC, #RepresentationMatters Division: MSNBC Anchors Have Given