and so was Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind.

That’s always been my understanding. “Spiking a drink” (or the whole punchbowl, as pookel notes) does not necessarily imply the intent to sexually assault someone. Like, at all. But it’s still ultra shitty and ultra irresponsible for a grown-ass adult to do. Family history of alcoholism, medications that have…

I agree that this is terrible, and I have no idea what they could’ve even been trying to go for. But...I didn’t think “spiking” was necessarily associated with date-rape? I thought it just meant putting alcohol in a drink that’s normally not alcoholic, like the stereotype of alcoholics spiking their own morning…

What? No. Spiking drinks is pouring vodka into the punch at a high school party and then laughing when everyone gets tipsy.

Too bad we can’t get all the people freaking out over Starbucks to direct their rage to this.

I think that’s the same troll having a conversation with itself.

#blackcoffeematters

We are truly lucky in that regard. Witnesses to our high school horrors were limited to the few people that actually knew us and certainly didn’t make any sort of news.

I’m so glad, for so many reasons, that social media was in like MySpace infancy when I was in high school.

Yeiiii good morning Mark :))

I don’t live quite like a miser, but I still kind of hope to do this some day. I don’t have, and won’t have children, so I like to imagine that like a dear friend of mine kind of ‘adopted’ me as her mentee when I was a young BeeAtch just starting out in business, that one day I’ll find a mentee. And leave her/him all…

What about First Lover?

So, I’m really struggling with the cognitive dissonance of knowing men around the world will take any opportunity to keep women down and the idea that I’m supposed to fall in love with one.

“ACTING is a CRAFT.” -Robert DeNiro, star of “Little Fockers”

I’m thinking (*hoping*) that the writers are going to give Trump so many jokes that sail over his head, but hit everyone else. It would be easy to give such a blowhard enough rope to hang himself with...

this and prada’s response super rub me the wrong way; they’re teetering on mansplainy. carls was super clear about people needing other specifics and these things being the general bare minimum, about 1/3 tongue in cheek, and a lament about how men aren’t raised to possess these basic ass qualities in being a decent…

The irony that a guy who looks like that was teaching dudes how to pick up chicks was enough to break my brain.

I once dated a guy who when I mentioned in passing that we were “dating” (I never said we were exclusive or he was my boyfriend) got all annoyed and said “We’re not dating.” Then, when I end things with him over the phone because he’s a dick he said something along the lines of “How can you do this over the phone? We…

“My bad behavior is some woman’s fault.”

Giving birth ripped me apart and destroyed my identity. I was 100% sure it was a mistake.nto have become a mother. I love that we can admit this now, that hormones are stronger than us and we might need time to adjust.