How are blue collar men paying for womens free healthcare? The payroll tax hits the highest earners like KIm Kardashian and Oprah Winfrey. And that healthcare isn’t free, it is provided by employers and workers pay into it—it’s the copay that goes away, not the cost. And it applies to contraceptives not all of women’s…

For anyone looking for more info on this phenomenon of angry working-class white men, check out the book “Angry White Men”.

Obama’s not wrong. Trump can parade around one or two minority supporters as much as he likes it's not minority supporters beating & hitting protestors at his rallies. I think the rise in vandalism against mosques backs up Obama's statement. Trumps rallying the dumbest most angry people in America (probably because…

There hasn’t been an on site transmission of HIV on a porn set on the straight porn side for over a decade. Yes, performers have contracted HIV but it has been in sexual interactions outside of shoots. My husband is a porn performer and he often works for Kink.com. How STI testing works in the industry is that…

Of course there are issues in the porn industry — contractor status and stigma against sex workers + standard-issue misogyny and rape culture present in every industry = high potential for abuse. Many of the women who have come forwards about assault have critiqued the industry, in a much more nuanced and informed…

I feel the same, and I will openly admit I liked James Deen’s scenes when I saw them, and I liked his look. I was into him enough to seek out his stuff specifically. Now? It’s over. But I’m not going to pretend I magically knew before hand. Too much abuse in my background to pull that bullshit on myself or anyone else.

If everyone could refrain from saying that you just KNEW that there was something off about James Deen, and you just KNEW he was a bad guy from the vibes he gave you through pictures of his face, that’d be great. When I got out of my abusive relationships and began to be more vocal, one of the worst things to hear was…

Oxblood is the color of your energy. Oh-ohhhh.

My thought was “Ugggghhhhhhhhhhh these colors won’t look good on me. Marsala for life”

Sex workers deserve the same respect and safety from harm and abuse as any other human being does.

To be fair, in the world of mainstream porn, there are so few people to cheer for.

Slut shaming, how terribly refreshing and original!

You have never had sex, right? You are obviously not grasping the mechanics of it.

Sooooo you think someone who is 55 lbs less than you wouldn’t struggle to breathe beneath you? Double standards much?

Your feelings? You didn’t offer feelings, just a bizarre excuse obviously not based in reality, with the addendum that anyone who disagreed would not be “sane”.

Wait, so do you always insist on being on bottom, or do you expect women to struggle to breathe with 180 lbs. on top of them? Or is your problem that women don’t hold themselves up at all while on top and just sort of sprawl on top of you?

Being fat is *not* a bad thing, but as a bona fide fat person, it’s infuriating to see someone who hasn’t actually experience life as a fat person trying to appropriate my life experiences. No one’s ever told her to eat a salad, and no one’s ever driven past her while she’s jogging and called her a tub of lard. She’s…

Except that it does harm people who are really fat, because this woman doesn’t experience fat shaming, food policing, and maltreatment by medical personnel (just to name a few examples) that folks who are really fat experience. She uses the term to make herself seem special - “I’m fat and fuck SOOOOO many people!” -…

UGH this article & all of its qualifying numbers!!! Have not learned that CLOTHING SIZE IS A FUCKING RIDICULOUS LITMUS TEST FOR SKINNY/FAT/AVERAGE???!!!