This isn’t a Millennial thing, this is a “seriously deluded idiot” thing.

She’s an adult. She didn’t get tricked, and she is still blaming alcohol for her friend raping someone. She’s a fucking idiot.

How you missed the idea that you are supporting two people on one income and THAT is why you have money saved is BEYOND ME. Lots of people don’t make enough to support only themselves, let alone a spouse.

Canceling credit cards is hell on your credit score, fyi., and financing things you can’t afford on them is really bad advice.

She used to write here and now she writes for GQ. She is hilarious.

Have you considered that they are harboring debt that they feel uncomfortable talking about with you? Because that’s a likely case, not that they simply have a ton of money that they do not want to use.

Maybe they don’t want to use their hard earned cash and vacation time to go camping??

Jesus go to a fucking therapist.

Okay but they’re still being abusive, just because it worked for you doesn’t negate its violence.