I am very much aware of all of those things. I am aware that MEN decided it would be a degrading thing to do. Men decided, in a patriarchal system that they created, to make it something degrading and awful. But somehow I don’t consider it degrading to a man for him to give me oral. And I don’t give a man oral who…

Yeah, I’m aware of this. I still like to do it occasionally, for a brief moment, just to see how far I can go out of curiosity and to change things up. So sue me. My gag reflex is not all that sensitive anyway, it seems. I will let someone with a dick explain why they like it. I assume part of it is just visual and,…

Oh yeah, 100 percent agree on that. If anyone tried to manipulate me into giving oral the way they think I should without asking me I’d be pretty pissed off and tell them where to go. That’s a foul thing to do to someone who is being generous. Luckily, most men I’ve been with have been grateful to get a blow job at…

Yeah, my dad loves this movie and I do love O’Hara in it in a lot of ways, but I hate the macho bullshit it keeps pushing, even for a movie of that time.

There is so much politics around blow jobs. Every time someone wants to talk about how women are being screwed over by the patriarchy and missing out on what they want in bed, it’s the go-to reference. I’m forever left wondering what the hell is wrong with me if I enjoy doing it. I’m bi and I have pret-ty pret-ty…

Cheapening of sex? I agree that it’s easier to find a video of a woman getting face-fucked, so to speak, than other alternatives women may want to check out, and I’m especially pissed off at sites that have videos of women who never consented to being filmed. But the phrase cheapening of sex seems to suggest that by…

This Clinique line seems to have a few toasty shades. http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/clinique-lon…

Is the assumption that casual sex always just happens once and that’s it? Because that seems to be the assumption through this conversation, most of which I very much support, just so thats clear. You can have a regular sex partner who isn’t your boyfriend and he may be just as motivated because he knows if he stops…

They commented on it in the accompanying story but it never occurred to them to call Samantha Bee for whatever reason. I don’t know what happened there, if it was poor planning or just not considering the issue at all.

And I’ll leave this here:

I don’t know how I would even handle meeting Rihanna. I would freeze and just stare at her until I fainted eventually. I went to an outdoor concert that I did not care about just because I knew Rihanna was somewhere nearby-ish and that was enough. Other people don’t get it. Other people say Taylor Swift...TAYLOR…

I broke up with someone in April. He had done everything possible to deserve it. I told him several times what was wrong and he said he would work on it but he didn’t. The gaslighting, the sweetness to cover up the need for control and lack of respect...I did what was right for me to stop further emotional harm from…

Thanks. :) When I do decide to start up with it again I may try Tinder and choose women since then only women will see me. On OKC, you can be invisible to straight people but they still get in there it seems.

As a single person with no kids who enjoys dressing up a bit on occasion, I find that moms can be super bitchy to me for no apparent reason, even though I hold absolutely no beef with them. At a meeting full of parents, this one woman (and she had to have been only have been 5 feet from me, stared at me obviously,…

I got off of OKCupid today. I can’t do it. Endless harassment. It’s always a cycle. I’m optimistic when I first start, ignore the crap, talk to the “good” dudes, realize the dudes aren’t right for me at best or terrible for me at worst, stay on OKC, become angry because so many of the people messaging me are lazy as…