Don’t bother. He lied, got caught out, and is trying to whip up drama to obfuscate that fact. You didn’t “fall” for anything; this is all his shitty behavior, period.

You are not stupid. You opened yourself up and made yourself vulnerable and that led to personal growth. At the risk of sounding cliche, you are stronger for this experience. I don’t know how to type the accent over cliche. You will know what to look for the next time. There will be a next time. You will know what is…

Don’t feel sleazy, you need to take care of yourself. His reaction to you trying to break up with him is a huge glowing red flag.

Take a beer out and throw it at his head. I mean you shouldn’t have but....

Reject the breakup? What the fuck does that even mean? No, sorry not sorry, you [dude] do not get to decide that! FOH with that fucking bullshit.

I’m stunned just hearing the story. My answer to shit like that is, “Do you ask men that question?” Decades ago a job interviewer (for a consulting company) asked me in if I ever wore makeup, and said that clients prefer it in a tone to imply that I should say yes if I wanted the job. I asked her if she asks men that…

“Those buzz kills? Fuck no, they’re at home. 4 year olds have to learn to take care of themselves at some point.....”

I would also have come up with a bunch of good comebacks...the day after. I am only capable of off-the-cuff wit if a time machine is involved.

You’re being hard on yourself. You did the right thing and his reaction to the breakup is proof of that. You deserve someone who listens to you and supports you and follows through on his own fucking suggestions for the relationship. I understand that travel is stressful, but that means he should have communicated…

Ugh. Well, a follow-up to the thread I started last week.

Ha ha, number 3.

“Actually this is for my Satanic Cult meeting! Want to come? We’re looking for a human sacrifice!” (Yeah I know that isn’t really a thing but crusty old dudes like that universally seem to think so)

Why are men so terrible? What the ever-loving-fuck is wrong with them? Is it because they can get away with it? Would women act the same way if put in positions of unlimited power with no accountability? Is this the human condition, or limited to those with a Y chromosome? I think science had better start coming…

I love her, too! Best of luck to you! Remember that you are not “needy”. There are no “needy” people-it’s all about finding someone who wants the same kind of love.

Jane should really just stop doing this thing. She is bad at it and she should feel bad for being so fucking indifferent that she hurts the people who are asking her for advice.

Bald has never been a deal breaker for me. Bald is only creepy when they do that Donald Trump combover or they grow it really long in the back like 80s Michael Bolton. Otherwise, bald but close cropped like Will or Woody Harrelson or anyone else like that is A-OK and still pretty damn hot.

I think this kind of comment is rude and unnecessary. My best guy friend is losing his hair and he is pretty self conscious about it and there’s really nothing he can do. He has it cropped short right now and honestly looks fine. It’s not that big of a deal and I think it’s kinda shitty to actively try to make men…

women have shown they can do what men can do, but men haven’t shown they can do what women do

“I appreciate the way I’ve behaved with colleagues in the past has caused a lot of pain, and I sincerely apologize for it. Though I’m trying to do better, I know I have a long way to go.”

Oh, I get it. ‘Estrogen Hour’ cause crying and having empathy is for women. We should totally listen to men like Sabo. He knows the correct way for men to have feelings - gunning down hundreds of innocent people from the safety of a hotel room.