Agreed. My local bodega is the canyon country store. Mostly insanely overpriced goods that are way past the expiration date. But great British candy, and a great deli and coffee cart. I still spend money there because I want them around!

I am totally with you. HE THINKS MY HUSBAND LOVES HIM. As if my husband does not see the abusive emails, does not hear the stories from my son, has not heard the way he speaks to me. His self delusion is bizarre. And yes, he honesty thinks he can treat me AND my son like crap, but we all want to go to dinner and…

My ex husband , who left me 17 fucking years ago when I got pregnant with a baby we were trying to have, still thinks we should be good friends. He actually TOLD my now husband that he was still in love with me. But he trash talks me to our child.

He is just STILL pissed he was not accepted into the “elites” in Hollywood, so, “if I can’t join them I will beat them.”

No, GAFNEY 4.

My last full time job was five years ago and I STILL have nightmares that I am forced to work there. At my worst self-loathing moments I remember all the snubs and times I was ignored and treated badly.

My best story is meeting my husband on there and getting the hell out!!!

“nice guys”

One of my happiest things was being a mod on okcupid. Abusive message. BAM. you are gone. Penis pic BAM, you too, motherfucker.

Thank you so much. Of COURSE I was not empathizing with a murderer. I am not even sure Leslie SHOULD get out. I was just trying to point out how stupid and silly people were about how long people (White men especially!) serve for similar crimes. But since I could not find THE EXACT crime leslie was charged with my…

God love the 80's and the hideous colors and squares and triangles everywhere.

I thought “ruthless people” was filmed in LA.

HA! My husband was a trust fund brat, and I have seen it happen in that population more than any other!

I have some major ones (34H, thank you very much)  and the thought of sleeping in my bra makes me want to cry.

And YES! When it happened to me I could not wrap my head around it, and thought it was this super unusual thing, until every single person I met told me their mother/sister/friend/aunt/cousin had it happen to them also.

I did not answer all the people piling on me in the comments about Leslie van Houten when I said people routinely get charged and let go/put on parole for horrendous things. (ESPECIALLY when they are not associated with the Manson name or are white men) This is quote by junior here- “I was given probation, however I…

Thanks so much. As I said, I am actually THRILLED he showed who he was, and he left BEFORE I had my son. We were so much better off, and I got PEACE, which is what you need to heal. Many years later I got a chance to meet my 2nd husband, who is a lovely father, and we’re all very happy.

YES. My husband of 7 years left when I got pregnant (we were trying to get pregnant) and I thank god every damn day he left and it was a clean break before the baby came. If I had had the stress of HIM on top of learning how to breastfeed and be a mom it would have been horrendous. Get out, girl! It’s not as hard to…

Please see examples posted above. Google and the news are FILLED WITH THEM.

She is not responsible for ALL the Manson Murders-you know that, right?