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@spiraloflife: I know what you mean. Cutting him off on Facebook wouldn't necessarily have to be a permanent thing, though; you could always add him as a friend again when you're in less pain. But it might be easier to get over him when you're not reminded of him as frequently. Just a thought!

@spiraloflife: So sorry to hear you're feeling that way. It's hard to believe it sometimes, but you will get over this. It might take a long time, but that's okay. Don't let anyone tell you that you should be over it by now—everyone goes through the grieving process differently.

@fridaphile: Thanks for the link! I didn't realize there was a Jezebel NYC group on Facebook—I just requested to join. =)

@gingerpastille: I just did this last year, and I think commuting for a while before moving to the city made the transition really easy for me. And life becomes much easier once you're familiar with the subway system, I think. One thing that really helped me branch out and try new things was yelp.com—I've totally

@Alohamaid: That's just wrong! How awful.

@fridaphile: Yay! I'm definitely interested. Where can I find more details?

I've been living in New York for about 7 months now, and I still haven't made any friends. So I spent my Saturday night at home, teaching myself to play the ukulele. I can't decide if that's cool or not.

@notsodarling: That is sad. Strawberry wine sounds gorgeous, too.

@notsodarling: Aww. Sadface! But at least you didn't get it on yourself! I did that in a restaurant recently, and it wasn't pretty.

@PrettyPrettyPrincess: Occasionally my "ironically gangsta" persona slips out when I'm at the office, and I'll say something like "peace out." And then I'll start blushing (because I'm not known for making jokes at work) and hoping it's clear enough that I was being ironic.

@Lyesmith: I was so excited when I heard this, it was almost as if two of my dear friends got engaged. I think they are both lovely.

I was hoping this was going to be a post about how Madonna has a long-lost son who turns out to be an awesome musician, and the video would be full of cracktastic pop music. Alas.

@DonnaPirana: I'd say the kneepads are there in case she trips and falls in those crazy high heels, but that would make them a good idea. Which they clearly are not.

Gorgeous shot. I love when photos play with depth of field.

Anthropologie, je t'aime!

I was 23. That's not cool at all, is it? I'd been trying to seduce my boyfriend for a couple of months, but he was also a virgin and terribly shy. I had to make all the moves. I doubt they were good ones, but I made them. And I wore thigh-high stockings to make up for the awkwardness with sexiness.

@midwestdesigner: I'm in my mid-twenties, but I shop at Delia's for skinny jeans. I never thought I could wear skinny jeans, but theirs actually look good on me. Which just confirms my theory that if you shop in enough places, something has to work out, right? (Though it doesn't exactly make the process any less