No. No. No.

Not necessarily. That’s definitely true for girls who are most likely to be abused by male family member. For boys, it depends on the age and where you live

That man would’ve no longer been my friend

Too many men view sex is just putting their dick in a girl and ejaculating

But the line about “ “falling behind “indicates there is something psychological.

This tells me he’ either very young/immature or the type of idiot who views women as objects to fuel his masculinity and not, say, people to actually be in a relationship with.