Except condoms are used by men not women. Putting them on right or putting them on at all is not up to her because it's not her body. What she can do is take hormonal birth control which will make her in charge of herself. If she doesn't have access to that then she doesn't have access to birth control. Also Female…

Even if parents aren't progressive enough to teach their daughters about safe sex they still do teach them precautions. So even conservative families like mine and your wife, we get the how not to get raped talk even if sex isn't discussed. That is why it's annoying to hear some dude or woman give us that advice which…

Actually I have very conservative muslim mother who won't discuss sex with me but has given me advice on how to not get raped. Make sure i'm not alone with a dude, never to put my drink down(not alcoholic drink, just any drink), not to dress or act in a suggestive manner so it doesn't give some guy the wrong idea…

That doesn't even make sense. It doesn't take more effort to say I'm not interested than to give a fake phone number (it actually might take more work to give a fake number because you have to remember it). The only way it makes sense to say women are doing it out of laziness is if saying i'm not interested means she…

I don't think feminists are trying to eliminate the role of a father. Quite the opposite actually. I'm a feminist and I believe loving parents are very important part of our society and it doesn't matter what the gender of that parent is. Parents should dedicate their love, time and resources into raising their child…

From my experience I have heard the term gold digger and cougar used way more often than any kind of negative name/label for a man with older or younger significant other.

Calling adoptive parents, parents is not the same as a man claiming to be pregnant. Adoptive parents are parents, now if they claimed to be the biological parents of the child that would be incorrect. However calling them parents is not incorrect. It is in no way claiming that they are biologically related to the…

My dad who grew up in a village in Pakistan did all that and even after we were born he also raised us(he doesn't call it "helping out" or doing any favors he calls it being a father and doing what a parent is supposed to do). He changed diapers, taught us how to walk, stayed up all night and carried each one of his…

Actually if someone you know says something inaccurate there's nothing wrong with correcting them as long as your intention isn't to be condescending

but it's still usually the woman who get's the negative labels. She's either a gold digger with daddy issues or she's a cougar.

males who commit suicide for not having the income to provide the necessary alimony.So I don't know what the fuck you're talking about.

Not having to be drafted.

I think what cheerleaders do definitely meets the requirement for it to be a sport but I also think we should take out the part where cheerleaders cheer on another team. When they're there to cheer on their school's basketball, football or whatever team it makes what the cheerleaders do look less important than the…

Sure little boys might look up girls skirts. Maybe it's intentional maybe it's not but like you said it happens and we can't control it. What we can control is whether that little boy will go on to make fun of that little girl, tease her, or talk about her in a demeaning way. That we can control! We can punish him so…

They won't get involved to tell the person who's making this world a shitty place for all men and women to stop and be respectful but they'll get involved to tell women they shouldn't share their experiences.

Let's say you're in a room with 5 guys. 2 of the 5 make some crass remark, do you expect the rest to do so, or share the same views as well? Some people would. All I'm saying is that some of the men respond the way they do because they don't want to be instantly thought of as one of those 2 who felt it was acceptable…

A man going into a bar doesn't want to be assumed to be a potential rapist or misogynist

Even if the defendant was only charged for violating the terms of his probation, it was clear from his comments that he did not think the man convicted of statuary rape got off easy. I get the sentence wasn't for the rape and that was out of the judge's control but it's obvious as day that in the judge's eyes the…

Not bullshit. Didn't PlayGirl go under. and didn't they admit that mostly dudes read it. but ... they stories were wrote toward women. but women were not buying and reading it. gay men were. men like looking at skin. women dont. at lest not like men do.

You keep talking about how women and girls like males who're attractive assholes but it's obvious that you also chase after the type of women who're attractive assholes. Let the assholes date each other and think about maybe giving the not so pretty shy girl a chance. That poor girl isn't getting laid either while all…