This is the whitest (absolute whitest) thing I have ever read. Good job.

This is an interesting opinion so I’m pulling it from the greys.

Uh... no. I’m not pretending “that a third party’s word is gospel and that Amber Heard must be a liar because some other, unrelated lady says so” I’m saying you are intentionally misrepresenting facts and ignoring the words women use because you want them to have said something else - sorta like some asshole stinking…

I don’t think Winona Ryder has ever said that Depp hit her or anything, but she said her first boyfriend “used to smash everything.” She doesn’t ID Johnny by name, but she’s established elsewhere that he was her first ever boyfriend and that they two of them first met and got together when she was 17/18. Violent…

Not that he was abusive, that he would throw smashy tantrums.

Yes, and that is why people will make so many excuses and stay for so long in an abusive situation. As a society we like our monsters to be very clear cut - you’re a bad person or you’re not. But that’s not how it works.

what am I missing?