This article is seriously confusing.

Die on the moon. Dammit, I was, as a child in the 70's *promised* picnics on the moon. All the adults said I was so lucky to be born when I was because I would get flying cars and picnics on the moon. DELIVER, people!!!! We're waiting!

That can happen?????

Mentally, I would assume.

Yeah, maybe I'm a coward, but I just couldn't do that to someone I cared at all for. I'd say yes and break it off after to save the person face.

Fine. She pops the question, and he can pick out and wear the dress. I'd much rather go to that wedding. Those people sound fun. :-D

A different article I read said it was a "co-worker" of his. I read that to mean NOT his girlfriend; A work crush. EVEN WORSE!!! Ugh, can you even go back to work after that embarrassment? Either of you, actually?

I think you mean your quandary quandary.

In a quandary.

Serious question: If we're OK with them excluding based on gender, are we also ok with excluding based on race, or anything else about yourself that is quite difficult to change?

Not mine. I order "no whip."

I'm a white woman who grew up around the Boston area, Lived in Chicago a bit, then moved to NorCal. I, like the author of this article, have almost *always* been catcalled by black men. I struggle to even remember an instance of a white man catcalling me. (And we could totally have a conversation about whether my…

Thank you, well said!!

I used to think this was true, too, but its not. They count every one. But only if the race is close enough for the number of absentee ballots to sway it, do they hold off calling a winner, if the absentee ballots are not counted by poll closing.

All states have some form of mail-in voting. Here's a fun map of the options by state! http://www.ncsl.org/research/elect…

Absentee ballots are your answer. Until such time as we get a national holiday or something like it.

I was just thinking that next time I need to take the day off and volunteer at the polls.

42. Voted.

Not sure where you live, but check out your library next time. The adult literacy program at my library has a pretty pared down voter guide that breaks things down into easy language. Less political jargon. That might help. (It's not, like 2nd grade level or anything. It's still intended for adults. Just adults new to…

Absentee ballot next time, right?? With a little planning, you can vote, even when in job hell. (I been there. Sucks. Sorry.)