Asian american men make up a significant portion of the MRA/incel community. It’s a huge problem, especially because so much of it extends from the cultures we grew up in.

“Then I have to coddle them and say it wasn’t so bad, lie to make them feel better.”

I was sexually abused as a child. I lied about it even to sympathetic seeming people as a knee jerk and self preservation reaction. Even when I could admit some of the abuse, I would lie, deny, and hide the rest. Because people act different, look different, treat you different when you disclose. It makes you feel…

The third season of The Killing is the serial killer of teen prostitutes through the eyes of teen prostitutes story. It is harrowing in no small part because of the layers of exploitation, violence and grossness the detectives have to wade through to find the one specific layer of gross, exploitative violence that is…

My father’s family often says things like “Oh, I’m sure he didn’t mean it.” Or, “This time he’ll smarten up.” He won’t. Because sure, I have memories of a laughing man, pushing me on the swings, or showing me how an engine worked, or allowing me to pin bows in his hair and beard with fond exasperation. But I also know…

Alright, I was with up until you started blaming women for not keeping their men interested enough to not stray. That is horseshit.

Here in Atlanta my employment law colleagues and I have filed (and won) a number of FLSA class action suits against the clubs based on the same misclassification threory. On behalf of both female and male dancers. So these actions have already spread around the country to lots of cities with large numbers of clubs.

Reading the story as a 30 year old, I wish she just left. If I were in her position now, I would have left in a heartbeat. Screw your creepy guy. Bye.

My relationship with my father is beyond problematic and I haven’t been in contact with him for over 3 years. Reading all of you rave about your awesome dads makes me feel like shit (not your fault, obvs - I’m super happy that some of you have great dads). Anyone else who has cut contact with their father/main father…

Um, Megan - did you mean to say Senator Murphy instead of Senator Murray (who was also at the hearing and also did some good questioning but is from Washington State, so her questions were a bit different than Sen. Murphy’s)? There are a couple of times in this post when it says “Murray” when I think you meant…