Just because her mother’s still alive, doesn’t mean the girl can’t be grieving that her mother either can’t or won’t ever be there for her again. Her entire world just shifted dramatically, she’s having to live with strangers and go to school with strangers, and might never see her family or friends again.

You’re a mean fuck. You know perfectly well that the fact that someone can’t be a parent doesn’t mean the child “is simply not wanted.”