I find that many game “communities” are intrinsically hostile, period. You’re right that there’s also usually a misogynistic/homophobic element to that hostility. It’s really a bummer.

This method does not work. What it does is cause the peanut butter to stick to the seal at the top of the jar and therefore make it messier to open. If you then stick a knife down into your peanut butter, the oil (that has just separated to the middle/other end of the jar) geysers up out of it. Just stir it up once…