Been going back over this whole mess. You've probably seen this, but this is a great link to point people to when they start in with the usual bullshit arguments about how being nice will produce change and what not.

Do you work for the National Parks Service?

I was talking specifically about day-drinking, but I rarely, if ever, go beyond two drinks on any one occasion, and I drink MAYBE twice/month.

Well after hooking up with someone a week ago, I asked if he wanted to take the approximately 1/3 bottle of wine remaining home with him, as I was going to drive later and couldn't have an open bottle in the car. He looked at it, said "Not worth it", picked it up, upended it, and CHUGGED. So...maybe I'm just a drunk…

Honestly I'm anti-both, maybe with the exception of a very occasional mimosa/Bellini with brunch.

That would be a no to both in this instance

Hahahaha

Oh, that bit is definitely in his favor, but very little else is. Also, at 32, morning drinking to the point of intoxication should not be a thing. He did apologize afterwards, when I said that maybe we should reschedule, saying "Sorry. I swear this is not how my weekends normally go"

I was supposed to meet up with this dude for the first time today. A half hour before go time , I get this message:

I watched the documentary. It was horrific and terribly sad that her parents raised Jyoti with feminist ideals and worked so hard to help her through medical school, and that this was her end. Also I might hate those lawyers more than I hate the rapists, because the lawyers are perpetuating toxic ideals quite happily…

Derailing: you're doing the wrong thing right!

It took me an EMBARASSINGLY long time to get that. Well done.

It's STILL India's Daughter. It's absurd that they got it wrong, because look at what Meryl is standing in front of.

The BBC put it up on YouTube:

Yes, it's India's Daughter. Here's the link to watch it on YouTube:

STOP BEING A WELL-DOCUMENTED BULLY, ADULTOSAUR

OMG

I went and engaged in some puppy loving today

Plz post puppy pix.

Hate Walmart and all their works, but apparently they're $2.64 a bag there, if the store nearest you carries them.