this gif made my morning!!!

I know. I'm there too. I was never hit but I was so verbally and emotionally abused. I'm so happy to read you got out. It was so hard... Until I did it and now I can't believe I stayed so long. Stay strong and may you have all the goodness. :)

and you're not with him? I hope...

I spent years thinking it was all my fault. I was to blame because I was a shitty, insecure person. I started to go to therapy and it was then that I realized it wasn't me. That I was in an emotionally and verbally abusive relationship. It shocked me that I didn't realize sooner. When it starts to happen you are…

Sucks that I'm the grey here... But I want to ask; how come it took so long to see the abuse? How cone it took me 8 years to see I was being hurt and damaged? I'm a smart girl. We all are. How come? I am angry at myself for staying so long and getting so hurt.

Lady? Throw a party. Throw a big one. :)

this times 100.

same here. Living in my own place finally for the past two weeks. It's a miracle.

fuck I laughed so hard at this!!!

Oh my god... this was my anthem song when it came out! Oh... Toronto!! I miss you so much.

Is it just me or is Fergie a hot, fake, posturing mess? My god, whenever I see her on New Year's or any show she comes across as sincere as a loaf of bread pretending to be the Hope diamond. Her moves? So calculated... her voice and mannerisms, so affected... is it just me? Has anyone else noticed this? i can't…

dickmatized!!!! Awesome and I love this word. You rock. :)

I'm glad you wrote this... I fully concur with that you said and feel like I could have written this exact paragraph... cheers to you. :)

Totally know what you mean, you are me in this regard. I have never felt the pull to have kids, I'll be 45 this year, freshly divorced and really? Not having kids is a place I wanted to be. I love kids, I love my family's kids and my friend's kids and I'm good with them, I just never felt the urge to have my own. I…

LOL!!!

shit! this all made me laugh so hard I fucking binge-read it. *hic*

WORD!!! Let us all post and delete the shits and IP address ban them. Being in the grey sucks. I love you guys and feel like I can barely participate. :(

agreed about the shoes. :)

MEC is the best! I used to work at the Toronto one. Most of my gear is still MEC. :)

MEC is the best! I used to work at the Toronto one. Most of my gear is still MEC. :)