I just ordered a pair in apricot floral. Reading some of the reviews, they might be a little sheer...but my cats don’t care if they can see my underwear. :-)

Awww, good luck!

TRY THEM!!! My cats love them, they like to grab the billowy legs as I swan past them :) Also I almost always get compliments on them and they are soooo comfy.

To all the assholes who pitched a fit when Michelle Obama wore sleeveless tops on vacation, where the hell are you now that Melania Trump is wearing a sleeveless dress on an official visit to foreign leaders? Or is it okay to go sleeveless if you’re a white Republican lady but not a black Democratic lady?

Do you have kids? I have 2. If my wife died, and I crawled into a bottle and mourned her for 7 years like I think I would (10 years in and I am still madly in love with my wife), it would be much worse for all of us than if I got my shit together emotionally and got back out there. Life is for the living, and Patton…

Where are her sleeves?! The horror, the disgrace. Shame upon the house that we call white.

Our culture is bad at grieving. Check out the Mourner’s Bill of Rights.

Stay with that. The “None of your business” part. It’s the important one

“Nope, too soon.”

This right here. People deal with grief differently and what wouldn’t work for one person, is totally fine by others. How long does he grieve? A year? 2? 10? There’s no timetable for these things, except being honest with oneself about what feels like the right thing to do.

This does not mean that he has stopped mourning. He just made room for love that is in his life right now too.

Uh, Patton Oswalt is always going to mourn his wife. Falling in love with someone else and getting married doesn’t negate the love one has for their deceased spouse. His new wife doesn’t delete Michelle McNamara, and if she’s a half-decent person, she knows that. Mazel to him and Meredith and Alice, who seem very…

Like you said. It’s none of your business.

Why be such a hater. Love won’t hurt anyone. It’s an open smile on a friendly shore. Yes... love. It’s love.

Or maybe his wife begged him to find someone after she was gone and not spend his days mourning her and get on with his life and find someone to give him happiness (the true meaning of selfless love)?

At first I thought it was too soon, too- but like SheeshTheseNames commented, everyone processes their grief differently. I hope Patton knows what he’s doing, and really has another shot at happiness.

What is it that bothers you about this?

Nope, too soon. It’s none of my business and I’m glad they’re all happy but all the hair stands on the back of my neck when this happens

It would be too soon FOR YOU. Grief affects each of us differently, and there is no timetable that we all must follow.