maybe my perspective is warped

i guess i wanted to know if i was the only one who felt an unspoken pressure to conform to the stereotypical narrative of sexual abuse victims with this article

yeah i know i fucked up hoping that maybe somebody felt the way that i did, or least would get where i was coming from

ok

And as for that last line, lemme quote something back at you: "I would think as a fellow victim you'd have a little more compassion instead of being all judgey."

yeah it is about me and my feelings you're the one running up on MY comment about MY discomfort talking about how expressing that feeling is unsatisfactory to YOU and how i should be "better" at relating to the article

i've had those dreams too

i tried, and i empathize to the extent that it was clearly abuse and not okay

because i don't care whether or not what i type on the internet "helps"

and while i'm not here to argue semantics with you, but this: "So here's a new story to throw into the mix: genetic sexual attraction is normal, and very real."

congratulations on being so much better with processing trauma from sexual abuse you're the winner clearly

and my comments are about my reaction to how the author presented her trauma

i'm not judging anybody! jesus christ

oh and A+++ on hitting me with the accusation of compounding someone else's trauma, that shit right there makes me roll my eyes like you have the slightest idea about my intent

cool hit me with that armchair diagnosis

and to clarify i have no issue with the author (that's obvious to me but i guess not to you or your hella huffy, righteous 16 stars)

yeah dude

it probably is because of my history with sexual abuse (10+ years) of stepfather coming into my room at night