Doesn’t help that VR headsets are basically impossible to find right now, at least in North America they're mostly backordered

Yeah, for me the motion sickness is the biggest issue. It’s like going on a roller coaster: it’s enjoyable, but not something I can do frequently for long periods of time, like I can with regular gaming. Not to mention, one needs a pretty advanced PC to even run a VR headset

No one ought to be told what sexual activities he “should” engage in. Either he already wants to, in which case he doesn’t need to be told; or he doesn’t want to, in which case you have no right to try to shame him into it