Based on conversations, I'm pretty sure his wife was aware of what he was doing. And while I personally would never be ok with that sort of arrangement. What if she is? It doesn't make cheating ok or not ok, but within the terms of their relationship that may be something they have chosen to accept.

It's not intended to be a general assumption of all black relationships and the capitalization is what I tend to do for anytime I am describing an ethnicity. But you can and will make of it what you choose to.

I don't know why exactly, but I am reminded of a conversation I had once with a Black man that I worked with. He was a nice guy who used to deal drugs but changed his life after he had his first kid and got married. And really I respected him, he gave me a lot of perspective on his life experiences and what it was…

Oh, I don't know. I'm pretty sure if I wore these to try to seduce my husband he would run screaming in the opposite direction.

I don't understand this website. Did instagram sponsor her to use all the filters in their repertoire?

Deleting my facebook account was the best thing I ever did. (I did it shortly after they went public) I do not miss it at all. It's a great way to weed out people who are actually your friends versus the ones who just like to lazily stalk you.

Now now how did they know she wasn't really getting it for her baby?

Oh so this is the new designer thing? Make a bad dress but as long as there are at least two slits thigh high it's high fashion?

Yes. I was never anti drug, but I also talked to a nurse about her opinion on epidural or no. And she said for practical reasons it makes sense to get an epidural for two reasons.

That third "floor" is really just a loft at best. I'm just saying.

Is this supposed to represent how her lifestyle brand is based on reality? Because right now all I'm seeing is her gooping her way along. Or are we supposed to blame the Vogue stylist for it?

The hardest thing to do in this world is to just live in it. At the end of the day you have to find what motivates you to continue living. Whatever that is - each of us has to figure it out for ourselves.

I'm pretty sure my parents wished they had them for me. I was always wandering off and disappearing places alone without them.

They have these ones at daycare that I can never open. I usually pray that someone else will walk in and open the door for me from the other side.

Haha I was going to add though that some of them are not very good and your kid could probably just break it off.

Depending on your door (if it's a round knob) they have handle covers that makes it impossible for them to open the door. It also works on many adults.

I know I'm probably the only one here. But those flowers are so beautiful I don't even notice the people in the pictures.

Interesting... I dont think it could hurt to ask them more probing questions on that esp if they have allowed other couples to each have twelve weeks. It wouldn't make sense for them to grant it to one set of employees and not everyone else also.

Actually I just read somewhere that if both people are employed by the same employer the employer is only at minimum required to allow them to share the 12 weeks.. which honestly makes zero sense to me. But it does appear it ought to be an option for you and your husband.

I think if your doctor can provide a medical reason to justify your husband needing to take FMLA leave to be home with you and the baby your employer cannot question it. i.e. you will need him at home with you to help care for you and the baby