"Should" look like women? How, exactly, does she look manly? Please mansplain to me how her facial features and body shape are negated by having short hair.

I'm sure a goodly number of the people in nursing homes are there because they were toxic assholes to their kids. But my mother worked 30 years as head nurse in nursing homes, and I worked there with her during high school, and most of these people were just regular, nice old folks whose kids had more important things…

I understand, and I'm so sorry it ended up like this for you [cyber hug]

Pretty sure I'd find my own kids boring, too, which is why I've not had any. And I never said I'm fascinating. Just that children aren't. I don't know why you think a person is stingy of spirit if they don't find a certain type of person interesting; I also think sports fans are excruciatingly boring and endeavor to…

Exactly! I just got a credit card limit increased for the sole purpose of building/repairing credit, it works pretty well. And my score dropped 6 points in 1 month after I paid off one student loan and suddenly my credit history was a few years younger :( Hence my urging to keep old accounts in good standing!

Namaste/tashi delek/gassho, whichever your preference be <3

...we're going to have to agree to disagree on that one. My experience is that the majority of borderline individuals I worked with had very poor impulse control when angry, and the result was lots of assault charges.

I want it to go on to the Supremes... as in Diana Ross et al. That would be so righteous.

Those Parasol Protectorate books are fucking awesome, and so are you for mentioning them.

We didn't need the first Iggy Azalea.

Ok, so, I'm going to marry this man some day. I don't care if he's straight or gay; if he needs a beard, I'm his girl. Holy crap, what a fantastic person. Seriously, I'm starry-eyed right now. Totally crushing on Mark Arnoldy at this moment. *.*

Every time I've considered suicide, this desire to spare my loved ones the burden of my existence is the main motivation. So, yeah, it's definitely more about self-loathing than selfishness, and anyone who says it's self is an ignorant motherfucker who I'll meet in a dark alley with a shank.

The new Old Spice lines smell fantastic, many of the deodorants in them are not at all manly but very gender-neutral, and they work really freaking well. And you get more per stick; they last forever. Seriously, it takes like a year to use a stick up.

PUFFLING

Fellow Buddhist! [clings to you in manner of baby monkey or similar]

I'm a social worker who's worked with many borderlines, and I can tell you that people with BPD are abso-fucking-lutely capable of harming others. The seesaw practice of idealization/devaluation that BPDs engage in with their relationships very often results in enormous amounts of emotional and sometimes physical…

My rent for a not-bad studio with separate bath and kitchen was $475 in St. Petersburg, FL last year. Now I'm in NJ and living with my mother for $500/mo to save money, as rent would be $900 for a shithole of a studio, or $1100+ for a 1br.

So basically this is a navel-gazing TL;DR about how you did something illegal, insanely dangerous, that you'd been warned not to do repeatedly, did anyway, and were punished for.

So basically this is a navel-gazing TL;DR about how you did something illegal, insanely dangerous, that you'd been warned not to do repeatedly, did anyway, and were punished for.

So basically this is a navel-gazing TL;DR about how you did something illegal, insanely dangerous, that you'd been warned not to do repeatedly, did anyway, and were punished for.