So, tons of good advice here, not sure if you're still checking up but, I highly recommend a Martingale collar. I have a Boxer/Husky and initially we used a harness. That encouraged her to pull on walks. We got the martingale and when she pulled I would give a little tug and she would slows to my pace. I also…

Wow, middle aged white men! and Doogie.

He does. He says he does the laundry and she the cleaning. I read it as she has higher standards for cleanliness and he is fine with some dust

There is so much going on here. When Tiki bows to him and congratulates him for forcing himself on his wife I cringed. and Joe feels empowered to share an even more disturbing anecdote because he was just validated by a big strong black football player...its reminds me of a scene from Bamboozled. So many layers to the…

Hang in there. Yours is a viewpoint worth reading. Jez is about diversity, right? I see the humor, too. (*solidarity, Sister?)

maybe the problem is that Jez/ media outlets should cover someone else's quote? bc I don't have a problem with her thinking/ saying this, but, the fact that her quote makes headlines is indicative of same issue she is talking about. Maybe black/ women and men of color don't feel like saying this to avoid angry POC…

I'm more disturbed than I expected. Sigh. Cyberspace and morbid curiosity are such a dangerous duo.

I'm more disturbed than I expected. Sigh. Cyberspace and morbid curiosity are such a dangerous duo.

I think the point is, they have to play and most likely will and do play the most important role in their saving. We are not the first people to "discover" these atrocities. Also, women who have escaped these circumstances are much better equipped to help other women in that position. We should support THOSE women…

apropos of what?

I don't see how that is comparable.

Except that the context is totally different for other kids... Being that this took place here in this country and remnants of slavery persist. So....

It really looks like she got her nose done. I think that altered her look more significantly than eye surgery. Either way, bummer people have to cut their faces to deliver info on tv.

Can every major airline stock this, please? Please? PLEEEEEEEEEEEASE!

Yo, invasive has many definitions! As in: tending to intrude or when someone inserts fingers or iinstruments into someone else's vagina. You knew what I meant. Grow up, weirdo.

And you've been to the gyno? It most certainly is invasive.

Phew, I was feeling all alone here. Glad the reinforcements showed up.

Okay, fine. Lets do this!

My comment spans informal relationships (one night stands) as well as long term ones (which may or may not involve abuse). There is an epidemic of violence against women in this country and across the globe. Coercive family planning happens frequently. There are also a lot of obstacles in accessing birth control,…

I'm married to a big beautiful black man, thanks anyway.