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Thank you. I travel for work, and connection flights are almost always working against me. If that’s not the case, I have a different approach, but frankly, I still want to stand because I’ve been sitting for hours and need to get some blood circulation going.

Gen X raised a Zoomer (who is about to be 21).  Frankly, the Zoomers and Millenials give me nothing but hope.  There’s a whole lot of outdated perspectives that simply need to go away.

Hell yes we get to eat popcorn and enjoy. Although I have attempted to help some Boomer friends move past their self-centered wailing and gnashing of teeth. I won’t be making that excuse again.

I would say only the dickish Gen X-ers are being mislabeled as Boomers.  

You forgot my fave: “Education: School of Hard Knocks”.

I realize the goal is increasing intrinsic motivation. That can work very well, until roughly the teen years, when I think pieces of what young people are learning are about boundaries, individuation, consequences, what feels good vs. what doesn’t feel good, short term vs. long term gratification, as well as how to

It’s going to be ok.  Don’t stop looking for support for your kid--or for yourself.  Parenting is hard, and our young people need us to not give up on them or ourselves.  Big hugs to you.

If you are in the state of Oregon, check with your county public health clinic—many of our communities have supplemental free or low cost health care clinics as well.

Some of our K12 school districts likewise have low cost clinics that serve parents as well as kids.

Even if you are a single adult, you might also be

Thank you! I don’t want to “up vote” the asshole you replied to, so adding my commentary here:

Sure, “my body, my choice”. I have had life long respiratory issues, which began when I was a young child—I have asthma as an adult as well.

Every time some non-flu-shot-getting asshole person “my body, my choice”’s this, they

Those of us in states with active militias, sage brush rebellions, etc. know that they aren’t all lazy.  There’s a reason the Malheur takeover occurred in Oregon--and it’s not laziness.

You show your kids how to be an adult and don’t make a big deal about it. When you model body policing, especially of women, that’s on you.

T2 diabetic on a doctor supervised keto diet—I love using CarbManager. I spent 30 days using CarbManager, MFP, Chronometer and a couple others I don’t remember.  I preferred CarbManager for my needs, especially since it lets me set diabetes carbs (which don’t subtract fiber), and I can easily enter blood sugar levels

Sorry, I’d rather pay to watch Kristen Stewart holding her girlfriend’s hand and having an enjoyable life.

I appreciate you sharing your experience--I wish he could read this or have someone communicate it to him.  :(

I’m really sorry about the assholes. People who do not have kids on the spectrum do not understand—and God forbid they become parents of kids on the spectrum.  It would be unfortunate for those children.

Butter Jr. was diagnosed with a sensory integration disorder at 2-3 years old—after her dad tried to “discipline”

Yes!  I had a hysterectomy earlier this summer and needed some summer-wear dresses that would be forgiving around the waist line--I’m now almost 3 months post op and the dresses have been fantastic to lounge around in, exercise in.  $19.95 is seriously in my budget!

Yes!  I had a hysterectomy earlier this summer and needed some summer-wear dresses that would be forgiving around

When I wear dresses for exercise (and that’s a good portion of the time), I also wear low cost cotton blend bike shorts I get from WalMart. Rainbeau Curves has bike shorts, but I seem to recall they may not be cotton blend—or they might be out of my price point.

The WalMart DanskinNow brand is great for helping me

When I wear dresses for exercise (and that’s a good portion of the time), I also wear low cost cotton blend bike

This looks great on you—and for me personally, both the size ranges and cost are extremely prohibitive. I also seriously dislike polyester fiber work out clothes.

For anyone else who shares similar plus sizing, needs something cost effective and prefers cotton blends to poly blends--Rainbeau Curves has very affordably

This looks great on you—and for me personally, both the size ranges and cost are extremely prohibitive. I also

Thanks for that.  Bummer.  Butter Jr. vapes, but I’ve been hoping she doesn’t purchase from vendors anyplace not the West Coast.

Oh man, we are hitting all the rage points tonight! I’ve mentioned elsewhere I am 51, and my daughter is 20. There are very many ways in which I feel like she is a citizen of a different country, because it’s not the one I grew up in. In a social awareness sense, that’s a good thing.