A little face time with the plumbing really helps to know what’s going on down there if you’re new. I can’t imagine just going in blind. That’s how you accidentally end up in butts.

Ya’ll my husband is a doctor and he’s screwed up the holes. I think they just mindlessly shove it anywhere and hope it makes it into something.

I don’t know if it’s so much not knowing their holes as not knowing how to speak up when something like that happens. That’s where teaching people about bodily autonomy and consent comes in so that people know that it’s perfectly fine to put a stop to ‘accidental’ butt sex.

Good point. A little face time with the plumbing really helps to know what’s going on down there if you’re new. I can’t imagine just going in blind. That’s how you accidentally end up in butts.

Yes. I’m just not a fan of accidental sexual encounters, especially for the first time. People should be able to consent to having stuff in their butts or not. Maybe some people have had accidental anal and ended up loving it. Hooray for them. Personally, that seems like an unnecessary gamble during what should be a…

Heres my question...so this virgin couple went straight to p in the v sex? No fingering or oral, just straight to sex? That was not my experience so I’m just curious how often that happens. I feel like with a little exploration, this shouldn’t be a problem.

This makes me sad and should not be happening. Women need to be taught about their bodies from a young age. I’ve been able to differentiate my vaginal opening from my asshole for as long as I could remember. Men, should also learn these things, but seeing as they consistently prove themselves to be generally useless,…

I don’t think it could happen where it continued on but I’ve definitely had it happen accidentally where things slipped. But it’s very quickly been a “NOPE THATS MY BUTT STOP RIGHT THERE” thing that was rectified (heh) quickly.