I've known plenty of people of all races, men and women, who are full of bullshit.

There is no such thing as "Asian" culture. Asia is home to 60% of the world's population.

Hey, it's tough for us guys too, having to throw all those hot dogs.

In fact there are exactly 55 minority ethnic groups in China aside from the Han Chinese. They counted.

That is really whitewashing (so to speak) the history of the MPLA and the civil war in Angola. I'm not defending UNITA at all, but it was a proxy war between the U.S. and the Soviet Union with atrocities committed on both sides.

Ugh ugh ugh ugh ugh.

Northern California?

I don't know that it's a matter of Black men being seen as hypersexual as much as hypermasculine, analogous to the way Asian women can be seen as hyperfeminine.

How so, if you don't mind my asking?

But I'm pretty liberal and... well, to be honest, as a white guy, is there any way I could say that I find many Black women attractive without it coming off as a fetish? On the other hand, I refuse to date any woman who is not willing to date a Black man. That might mean something if I actually dated much.

The easy thing to say is that you wouldn't want all those racists hitting on you anyways, but that doesn't make it feel any better. I'm sorry it's been such a bad experience for you, and I hope you find a more productive avenue.

He hasn't taken responsibility for anything yet. He could hardly fire someone while still denying the truth of the charges.

Maybe it's just hard for me to relate since I've never been subject to all the princess narratives. Personally I know that if I were looking for a partner I'd want someone who was an equal in our relationship. I'm not the most clean and neat person myself but I'd rather pay someone to come by and clean than expect…

Thanks... I think? That's a good thing, right?

Part of the problem is that Clarence Thomas and Thomas Sowell both are clowns who do not deserve to be taken seriously in general and certainly in their particular evaluations of mainstream cultures, even if they might condescend to approve of asinine mainstream hip-hop.

My understanding of the "womenist" label comes from mainly people in non-Western countries who reject the idea of mainstream feminism essentially colonizing other cultures. I am not particularly familiar with the details, and as a cis het white middle-class American male I am frankly exactly the person least qualified…

It's certainly not my place to judge your experience of either online forums or the real world, and I'm sorry that I was careless in implying otherwise. My experience has been that anonymous unmoderated forums tend to attract people who are willing to spew out the most vicious bile that drives even everyday mainstream…

I'm hesitant to admit in polite company here to having visited those sites, but yes, I am familiar with them. And I'd also add that I've been personally acquainted with some of the same feelings of resentment that finding a connection seems so difficult and that sometimes we have little power to make ourselves more…

I think anonymous forums on the Internet do let people fly their freak flags, so to speak, but they also tend to attract lots of people who can't deal with or get kicked out of more civilized forums. In a lot of these places when you look closely you'll see the same five or ten or twenty people just talking to…

On the one hand, I feel like the rest of humanity is better off if those white racists choose not to date women who are "tainted" by some absurd notion of racial purity. On the other hand, that is so fucking cruel and dehumanizing that it's grossly unfair to expect anyone to see a silver lining in that shit.…