I like IKEA. I don’t find it stressful or temper-fraying. I enjoy building the furniture; I have assembled furniture for my friends, even, because it’s fun. Snobs and haters can go suck on a FINANSIELL.

John Travolta is looking a lot like Jude Law’s character in A.I.

My husband had to restrain me at a Disney World counter-service restaurant, where we waited in line to order for FIFTEEN MINUTES, and the people in front of me STILL had to lingeringly peruse the menu board which had been plainly visible to them for FIFTEEN MINUTES (did I mention we’d all been standing in front of it…

Once, an 8-top of Christians left one of those “Here’s a Tip for You!” pamphlets on my table, in lieu of a cash tip. I was sort of used to this, so I didn’t remark much, just tossed it into the bus tub with the rest of the debris, and a glower.

I’m a little late but here goes. I worked in a Gay Dennys in Arizona and soon after gay marriage became legal, I had the most adorable elderly couple of men, one white, one black. They were seated at the counter and had on these beautiful leis. I asked if I could feel the real flowers and asked what the occasion was.…

Shhhhh! They were religious! They must have been doing something wrong!

How irritatingly shrill and click-bait-y of you. This place could have continued taking her money and failing to educate her, but they decided she would be better served in a school that had curriculum designed for at-home students or partial attendance. Do you know how hard it is to educate? Widely different students…

Oy vey. First off, I’m sorry you had a breakup, that sucks and there’s never a good time for that or an easy way to move on. It just takes time.

Yeah, a month’s a really short time to get over an ex. Sounds like you need a break from dating.

It seems like you’re expecting him not to have any feelings about what happened, which I think is unfair. If I were him, I would feel frustrated and confused and used. Maybe there are some nuances of his behavior that aren’t coming through here, but just going by what you’ve written it doesn’t seem like his reaction…

I’ve done this, too, and when I looked at it from his point of view (later, obviously, when I wasn’t so self-absorbed due to grief - just a bad break-up in my case, sorry for your loss!), I felt like such an ass. Well, because I had been. But it was really hard to get outside my head and see it at the time.

I’m sorry to say this, but I don’t think he overreacted at all. You clearly weren’t intentionally leading him on or anything, but you must have confused the hell out of him. First you want to fuck him, then you don’t, then you really want to fuck him and ask him to go out to buy condoms, and then you tell him you…

I feel bad for the guy. You played hot and cold because you weren’t ready, and none of that was fair to him. You’re in the wrong.

You had every right to change your mind, and you did. But your story gave me whiplash, so I can imagine a little how he felt. You both dodged a bullet. Chalk it up to experience.

I am struggling to see how/where he created drama. You might be projecting, because I think he handled being yanked around pretty well. Your behavior was very hot and cold, and when I put myself in his shoes it doesn’t feel good. It sucks to be a rebound to someone who’s using you to work out their own personal shit…

Breakups suck. And I hope this doesn’t sound mean, because I’ve definitely been there, but just reading this felt like you’re emotionally all over the place right now. It doesn’t sound like you were ready to be hanging out with this guy at all, let alone having sex.

I didn’t expect him to be THRILLED but his reaction was way over the top, right?!

One time I got 3 pairs of Kate Spade shoes for under $100 because I happened to find them in my size at a buy 1 get 2 free sale at some store I had never been to, and have not been back to since. I believe it was fate.

I made an asshole comment about him in the other article about this which I massively regret. I feel for him more now seeing him and hearing him properly. She is a scumbag still. thanks for the people who told me in the other article.

Ew. I’m sorry, this is a gross opinion. In like every way. This is a guy who was raped as a child. Everyone told him how awesome it was, and no one treated him like a victim. He fathered children with his rapist when he was 13. He was so damaged from the experience and how everyone basically cheered him on for being…