This song is actually very empowering for young women, especially black women. What she actually talks about in this song is how some men not all, try to act big and present themselves as"ballers" and kings putting themselves up on a pedestal above women, when they actually are lames and doing stupid criminal things…

Yes, I'm confused about this. Can the writer of the article please explain why she's being incarcerated? Canada is notorious for being sticklers about who they let into their country. But I don't understand why she has to be in prison. Is it because she can't change the date on her return flight?

you GUYS. I am a regular jezzie and Kate Hansen is my cousin. I just am so excited to see her on here. she's seriously this amazing, funny, and dance-y in real life. she's doing great for a first time Olympian and we are so proud of her. couldn't have someone better to rep the family - she's so great. USofkAte!

No reason why they can't look abroad to some of the fine American Schools...

WTF did I just read?

As a writer of psychological analyses of fictional characters, I am a bit disturbed that Jez has not properly cited the work of this psychiatrist. I'm sure this doctor would expect that her work be recognized.

Okay, where's the fanfic where Hermione has an affair, and she and Ron get a divorce? I think that's the inevitable conclusion.

I think Rihanna needs to stop hogging all the beautiful and spread it around a little. Daaaang.

I've been under the impression that most of the commenters on this site get their rocks off by pointing out who's a fuck up/who's fucked up. Jezebel LOVES doing this to famous women in media, so I'm not surprised in the least that these demons turned on the writers as well...

Thank you. I didn't realize this was "trendy" have been working on it for several years. A combination of therapy, meditation, mindfulness awareness, and Buddhist philosophy has changed my life, and this article seems to trivialize it. By the way, I am not by any means a woo-woo New Agey-type person. I just wanted to…

Go read up on DBT and Mindfulness. Please. It's not as simple as it looks. Some people actually lead fuller, richer lives based on this concept.

Half this article is complaining about people telling you what mindfulness isn't, the other half is some preemptive cynicism about another thing you haven't actually defined. You spend so much time telling us what we shouldn't feel bad about not doing that you don't tell us what these things actually are.

Mindfulness has been up and coming for quite a while now - particularly in psychology. I hope that mindfulness isn't just a trend, it's genuinely useful and there's plenty of evidence that it helps with stress, anxiety and depression. It isn't a quick fix though (is there ever a quick fix?) so requires regular…

The problem with "Girls" (and with Dunham) is that she normalizes pathological behavior. "Girls" showcases the lives of a few severely fucked up women, and pretends that their lives and behaviors are somehow completely normal.

I think it's that she's an upper-middle-class lady talking about other upper-middle-class ladies, at that age where they're still fucking around Brooklyn and sleeping with whatever moves, but yet you can tell there's a hint of eau de soccer mom in their future.

What the hell is this? Why would I want to watch some schmaltzy crap like this? I guess I'll just click play and watch the first couple seconds but I don't OH MY GOD THEY'RE SO TINY I WANT A BABY RIGHT NOW

This is pretty funny, but a lot of people will miss the larger point. Sure, there's probably a greater amount of male enthusiasts than female enthusiasts, but it really angers me when I see stuff at events like when they have "bikini babes" seductively wash a car in front of a bunch of leering dudes (and I'm a dude).…

I just imagined it in his crazy autotuned singing.

I really thought the spelling of the "please marry me!" was a joke until I saw the picture. Bless his heart...

What in the everloving hell is the intro paragraph to this article?