Jem is my name, and it's a name you don't see out there often, so these articles and comments like this are really surreal to me.

I'm still pissed about that. Because of the blatant fridging, and because she was a much-needed injection of sanity and intelligence on that soap opera of a show.

My all time favourite Malloryism is when Lana accuses her of racism and she yells "Oh, put it back in the deck!"

Sounds like the dating world was dumped on YOU with a shovel.

So true. I wonder what that crossover is about. Probably all about outsiderism.

Yes! It's funny (not really :/) how some people, particularly guys, will have this idea that "forgiveness = everything back to how it was". I can forgive you and come to peace with something you did, but never trust you again, or just decide like you said that the relationship isn't worth it. I've seen it a lot of…

Racism is a systemic power structure, and if you're white, you benefit from it. Or at least, you're playing the game on the easiest mode… If you're white and haven't examined the privilege that comes with being white, you're a little bit racist. Hell, you're probably a little bit racist even if you've spent years…

Totally! They're two of the best people I know, so they're more than good enough. They're worth the occasional cringe.

My grandparents are really nice people, but my grandfather can't stop saying "the blacks" and "negroes" and "coloured people" and so on. He's only ever had very nice things to say about almost everyone (with the notable exception lately of Donald Trump) so he's no racist old coot, but there's been no luck in getting…

Destrudkins Majovery.

The problem might be in the phrasing of the question. An "if it happened to YOU" might be called for to get the answers you're looking for?

Dude.

If you're youngish and hang out with trendy, open people, those who are poly are a lot louder than those who are monogamous. My poly friends talk about it all the time.

My experience with them has made me hate Jews. But then, we're allowed to hate ourselves. It's even expected.

As soon as we start absorbing the influence of wider culture, we're all racist. Some people are hateful, others are just… I don't know, accepting. We all have to learn how to undue the influence of subtle white and male supremacy and not be racist, which is something we pretty much never stop doing (if we're wise and…

At once I get where he's coming from, considering how often poly people get the pat on the head and the "It's OK, you'll grow up and settle down with someone one day" and so on, and get frustrated that he's responding to condescending invalidation with condescending invalidation. Straight-laced, monogamous people can…

If nobody's explained it to you, "Milady" has connotations to lame, neck-beardy "nice guys" of online dating who tip their fedoras and talk about "white knights". I'm not sure how much of these memes come from an actual type of person and how much of it is just plain made up, but there you go.

I'm not a woman, so take this however much it's worth. I don't think punishment is a way to right any wrong, myself. A remorseful apology, commitment not to do it again, and a dedicated effort to win back the trust of a wronged party is enough in my book. It's still up to the women whether they want to forgive him,…

There's absolutely no way that stat is accurate. I'd be surprised if it was 10%.

If anyone EVER deserved the word "handi-capable"…