Most women end up alone anyway, as their mate’s death precedes their own.

Seriously, thank you on the misogyny of Closer. When the lady said she “was insane” to have left him, I was like, “A dude totally wrote that.”

Why not mandate training for all bartenders.

Yeah, seems like it would be real pity for a small number of men to not have their preference, just on the chance that it could keep many many more young girls, safe. When it comes to picking between the desires of men and the safety of girls, precedent shows that men win. You always want to maximize opportunities…

Okay, just because it happens to 1/5 of the women, still doesn’t mean women don’t also have OTHER things in their lives could be a part of their backstory. You know, a lot of boys have been assaulted and/or molested as well, but that’s somehow not nearly as interesting to male writers and viewers.

Noticed the kid during the video. But did spend the majority of it wondering why the featured boy assumed it was a girl writing back, and how on earth it was romantic. I thought the twist might be that it was the other boy.

Going to police is much more likely to be the wasted step.

Right, yeah, I was being flippantly ignorant in my attempt to say that it’s not his eye, it’s his actions. I should have said just that.

We are having some confusion here, because I’m totally lost about what you’re against in the revenge porn laws.

wait...why do you think revenge porn laws inhibit mutually agreed upon sharing of explicit images?

If he really thinks his eye is holding him back, maybe he could wear a patch sometimes and just look like he’s cosplaying. But then he’d have to come to terms with the fact that his creepy factor isn’t his eye.

Yeah, that’s definitely a good way to go. It’s nice for the office member, but can be more awkward for their spouse/guest who works elsewhere, and does not have the following day off. Staying until the end for the good door prizes isn’t as appealing when you have to get up early for a regular day at work. Still in…

I have. It’s not really recognizable. I knew what I was looking for, and could scarcely tell.

Nah, not that exactly. I’m not waiting for someone to “give,” me anything. But there are a LOT of ways to have a bad time during sex. Yeah, a conversation helps suss some of that out.

A joke? Nah, I might not care if you’re funny. But if we’re only going to have sex once, I sure as hell care if I’m going to have a good time. Your physique is not necessarily an indicator of that. But I can pick up on more when we interact.

And last one: my answer to your request isn’t based just on your looks. I need to hear you talk, see you smile, watch you move. I might have an idea when I first see you, but I don’t know if I want to until I interact with you more. so, a blatant question at the outset isn’t going to do a ton of good anyway. The…

Maybe pay more attention to how women have been complaining about strange men in public spaces requesting their time/attention just in terms of casual chit-chat. That IS basically the beginnings of the request, in polite terms, and even when that’s done that way, for plenty of people, it’s too much, gets old, gets…

Also, seriously going to have to disagree that that not being able to blatantly request sex from women is evidence of a broken system. We straight up do not want to have to field your requests that often, and risk is only a part of that.

I’m sorry to say that I think you may be disappointed when it comes to marriage. It’s not really this guaranteed sex partner arrangement. Still a fair amount of dancing involved.

That’s kind of hilarious that you both claim you’d sleep with 80% of the women you encounter AND claim it’s fucked up that so many casual sex propositions would be inevitably considered creepy or sexual harassment by someone. Buddy, just going by the numbers, that’s a LOT of fucking propositions to women. Who…