The issue I take with your comment here (which I appreciate) is that the way you’re classifying different kinds of cheating are very personal things. I think it’s tough to say that “sex is sex, whatever, it happens” because even that is more important to some people. I’ve been with my wife since we were very young,…

Ehh, its not the sex its the unspoken “these are rules we’re setting so we dont hurt each other” combined with “yeah actually i wasn’t going to tell you this, but i don’t care about those rules”

Same, one of my friends cheated (no penetration or anything) and, well, the situations around that was really hard (it was an ex, but the ex had terminal cancer and my friend was pretty paralyzed by what to do in the moment)

“We are sexual creatures” except for all the asexual people out there.

Anyway, as someone who is a bisexual arom person, I appreciate you throwing this hot take out there, because I’ve always felt more sad about the lack of openness about people cheating, and the pain it could cause, than the actual act, which was like...a thing people do sometimes. I just don’t want to throw out the…

I just want to throw this little tidbit out there: whenever an article talks about a dude cheating, the results are usually not nice, but they’re never “you’re crazy” or “You should kill yourself” or “you are literally the worst person alive”.

At the end of the day, it’s just sex. Don’t focus on the sex. Focus on the WHY.

Agreed with all of this, but you’re in a poly relationship which may skew things.

“Hello! Senator? I have a complaint about these so-called “stars” on the Youtube. They’re bringing drama and filling my recommendation list will bullshit. I WANT MORE CATS.”

See Exhibit C: Yiannopolous, Milo.

Hmmm. It seems like advocating for rape victims would be a better use of her time.

Oh Nintendo, you’ve done Nintendo’d again.

It’s weird how that can mean something good and bad all at the same time. What a magic unicorn of a Company.

“Hi, uh, Senator Harris.... I want you to know that I stand with PewDiePie!”

I was actually concerned with how I worded that. I completely agree with you, calling does work. It’s a fact. I said what I said in a kind of sarcastic way (Look what the internet has accomplished!), but not THAT kind of sarcastic way to imply what you were saying was fruitless, y’know?

TL;DR people are outraged over other people’s lack of outrage?

It’s a mature reading of the situation that relies on nuance to make its point.

easy as f-word noodles:

Damn, great find.

Damn, great find.