A lot of people love their jobs, but once they begin loving their jobs they don’t relinquish their paychecks. People in general just don’t value this type of labor, which is stupid. It is a job. Period.

This is true. When I was a nanny while in school, it was hard to maintain boundaries and I DID become part of the fam. Which was great, and the parents were great and everything was awesome. But I can see how this could go awry.

As a former nanny, I’m annoyed by this. It is the same as any other job, but often extremely difficult and stressful emotionally and physically. I never felt grateful for one second to the parents. We had a great fun relationship, but they were grateful to me for helping raise their children. WTF.

Exactly. It wasn’t like she propositioned him naked or something. She was observing his hotness in a hyperbolic way while her friend prob laughed. What is the problem.

She seems SUPER insecure and thirsty for attention and I can’t understand how she thought she would come off as the hero in this story.

I feel like people think that this actually happened.

Living one’s life as performance art or whatever they are doing must be so disorienting. I don’t understand.

Same, but I am torn about Tom Schwartz. I know he is objectively lazy and irritating (and a cheater) but I am unable to be annoyed by him.

I will NEVER believe that an adult man actually lives like that. He must be semi pulled together for his job, how can he essentially camp in his own house?

I REALLY miss Jax season one. RIP.

Yeah, I guess it is an unpopular opinion, but I do not want to deal with cheating. I think it is weird to have a convo about maybe deceiving each other in the future. It seems gross but whatever works I guess.

Same. This happens to me frequently. I think “no! No one could possibly be this horrid!”. Then I realize that anything is possible. Ugh.

Yes. If I were cheated on, even once, even if whatever, I would leave. Period. Don’t take that away from me, it’s not fair.

Yeah. “If you want to stay together...” is not fair. Why should only the cheater get to make that choice? Put all the cards on the table and decide together.

Totally agree about the power issue. I like my relationship because I feel like we are equals, on the same footing. We are a team. That would be over if he cheated and didn’t tell me. I would want to know 100%.

Maybe we should form a support group for would-be princesses and Broadway stars. How else will we cope.

Haha. Excellent point. Interesting that it is a whiny bro who prob rarely heard the word “no”.

I mean, it seems we should. Several of my close family members played college football. Not sure how I’m going to handle Christmas.

I didn’t get to marry Prince William and now I am not a princess. I hope I can control the impulse to commit hideous crimes because I’m so disappointed. I would have been a law abiding princess!

Listening to sad men reminisce about their high school/small time college football days is always such a bore, but I suppose now I also have to fear these guys in case their failure to be professional athletes makes them evil soulless criminals.