In my state, at least, the realtor doesn't have to disclose if there was a murder in the house - I found this out the hard way. We had no recourse but to stay as long as we could and sell as quickly as possible - the house was creepy, and I never had a decent night's sleep the 14 months we lived there.

So well said... my first women's study class created a polemic - could you be a true feminist if you had sex with men? And I spent years saying "I'm not a feminist, I just want to be equal.". And I was. I was very successful, but not by being a vocal feminist, but by doing my job better than men, by recognizing…