If you take on debt for a wedding, you’re an idiot.

Weddings only cost what you can afford, your parents are willing to pay, and how much debt you are willing to take on. They don’t just “cost what they cost”. They are like goldfish. They grow to the size they are able in the space they’re given. When I got married in 2003, my husband’s parents were in a bad place…

It’s all about the fact that all brides are convinced that if they do not have The Day of Their Dreams, life as we know it will be over. I realize my comments are pre-coffee, but if women decided to start a trend of getting married in someone’s backyard and skipping the 10001 crucial details of every correct wedding,…

Had to:

The proletariat?

That’s not Dan’s message. He talks about how monogamy is hard and it takes work and we should be more honest about that. If you don’t want to be monogamous, that’s okay but don’t go make a commitment to someone that you will be. Also if you have had an affair and you are genuinely sorry about the pain it has caused,…

In this day and age, it’s entirely reasonable for preteens and teens to be exposed to feminist writing etc. online, especially if she’s using Tumblr. Don’t write her off just because she’s young.

Not all adults!!!

Is smarter on feminism than some adults, at risk of damning with faint praise. There are border collies who are smarter on feminism than some adults.

They’re university employees who are being denied health care coverage, a salary and profit-sharing for their own likenesses. How is that fair?

The better question is why tuition, fees, etc continue to skyrocket while professors continue to teach fewer classes and are granted tenure. An even better question is why a college coach is the highest paid public official in 40 of 50 states, with a college dean or administrator taking the title in the other 10.