OK, I see a lot of women here posting that they cannot help crying, loathe it, and never intentionally use it in an argument; it just happens. And I see a lot of people saying "I'm sure some adult women crying are being manipulative." But I haven't seen any posts from women saying "Yes, I use this as a tactic." So,…

Agreed. For many of us, we don't want to cry, can't stop the crying, and would gladly not. So the choices are...cry in front of your SO, or leave the discussion until you are more under control. Neither is a good option. And chances are, when you restart the discussion, the tears will start again. Ugh.

I was going to say Torchwood. If anyone can locate them.