I thought your piece was a strong, unbiased work of investigative journalism, AS PER USUAL!

Yikes. Sounds like all this attrition will be a net benefit to you, though - less drama, trims down an admittedly huge wedding party, and fewer bridesmaids' gifts. My "because fuck you, Jess" story illustrates pretty handily why the recently or imminently-divorced can make for unpredictable wedding party members…

OK I get how that could be a complicated situation :) I like to remind brides-to-be, as an occasional bridesmaid, that while being asked to be in the wedding party is flattering and can be a great acknowledgement of your relationship, it's also an obligation that can sap your time/money/energy. So if you're ever on…

I understand that too. I am not even going to pretend like I liked my sister-in-law when my brother decided to marry her. She said mean stupid shit all the time and then would play it off like she was just being silly or goofy. My mother basically told everyone in my dad's family that they were going to hell after…

Oof, he sounds like a Grade A, 100% abusive asshole. I hope your sister comes to her senses and gets out of that hellhole safely. Just keep reminding her that you love her (even when she's being a selfish idiot) and you'll be there whenever she needs to reach out.

One of my husband's brothers didn't come to our wedding. Given we only had a three month engagement, but we both got the impression that beyond financial issues it was really about this being my husband's second marriage and his brother thought that this was going to be another screw up like the last one. He even…

Why the last two were in your wedding at all is kind of a puzzler, but your sister is your sister. Was she always this flakey? Also, no, do not go.

Tickets to Europe cost money yo. Especially on short notice and in the middle of planning your own wedding.

And you were friends with these people...why?

OK, let me guess, you're the sister.

Ok I actually now have a serious problem relating to this. We just found out one of fiancé's groomsmen has had sex with the girl our best friend has been dating for several months...on two separate occasions. Although the relationship wasn't exclusive, groomsman and our best friend were also very close friends and he…

Oh Christ, where do I begin?

Well, my now husband and were having pizza one afternoon. After we were done eating, one thing lead to another and I starting giving him a good ol BJ. I was horny, so was he, so I got on top and started riding away, enjoying ourselves. Then I felt a slight burning sensation. I was like, oh whatever, it'll go away.…

Dislocated my jaw by yawning.

I yawned my face off.

Yes. He may have a good body, with or without Photoshop. But he isn't sexy because of his personality.

Not talk about it. You can just do the right thing without telling everyone. That's not only for issues of racism, it's also just a general rule. You shouldn't need positive reinforcement for being a decent person. Just be one.

Isn't the fourth dimension space-time?

I'm a little more than shocked at all your (mostly) positive responses to this video...I have to say it just hits too close to home for me to enjoy. I grew up in Provo, graduated from BYU at age 23, and left immediately.

The folks at the BYU library also made a funny video. Want to see it? Here it is.