I agree with you. Her tendency to relate to blackness (or at least caricatures of it) is unsettling, troubling, and perhaps delusional, but, at least to my mind it, it shows more an arrested or slightly demented (rosy, even?) understanding of the black (male) experience than an overtly racist attitude. In a way, it's…

...Do you all really post pictures of ball player's cocks?

While I agree with the points presented re: the importance of reproductive rights for women, I live in the city where this happened, and it's important to remember that she left her baby in a dumpster.

What's a DVD?

But you're not criticizing this site, you're criticizing him.

If he was trying to lead some ostensibly heterosexual life, then perhaps you'd have a leg to stand on. As it is, the fact that you interpret facets of his personality and modes of self-expression as evidence of his sexuality only serves to disprove your argument for his conformity.

Why does he have to send a message to gay kids? Not everyone is a role model. Furthermore, his lifelong insistence on being himself in the face of all adversity is the message these hypothetical gay kids you mention should be gleaning from all of this. I sense that you're projecting a lot of your own shit onto him,…

Haberdash: Your hostile opinions here give more fuel than anything else for ALT's reticence to align himself with the gay community, because they make shocking clear how conformist the community has become. It is a community that, although once comprised of society's outcasts and misfits, becomes increasingly…