Sex neg Jez writer meets guy with self esteem issues. Of course he’ll do whatever she wants. I give it no more than 5 years before she gets bored and bails.

Congrats. A guy is entering a marriage he doesn’t want because you let your baggage trip you up. Ironically, you are more likely to lose him now than before if he ever resents you for it. I also don’t have a lot of faith in your vision for this relationship.