No makeup? FRUMPY!

I've always had a suspicion that Kesha was planning a similar move too.

EXACTLY. And this way I can be a secret asshole without people realising. (And anyway since I’m still grey on Jez most of my judgy comments end up silent anyway!)

I realised at one point that seeing a woman smile and look like she was having fun in porn was rare. And I don’t like that. It should be fun right? Maybe I’m projecting. I’m happy to admit that I’m pretty vanilla. But I think the whole trope of women being reluctant and men having to “win” sex from a woman is a huge…

But you are assuming that all childless couples want just *any* child. Some do! Some don’t! Blanket generalisations are stupid! Some women want to be pregnant, to grow that child themselves, to create someone who shares their DNA, and that is entirely their prerogative. Adoption isn't plan B, it takes a whole…

Silent judging is the most fun. And my secret hobby.

Oh my sweet Lord. I'm going to now look at the rest of the comments here hoping to see a follow up from you that you smacked this person in the face.

I find it hard to understand how sex can be fun if both people aren’t fully into it. But so much porn I see (and I don’t actually watch very much at all) seems aimed at men dominating women, choking, restraining, etc. (while acknowledging that BDSM is a separate thing and totally fun for consenting partners) it seems…

I think probably both. She barely gained any weight in this pregnancy either, which definitely counts. Meanwhile I'm 8 months preg and at my jeans could fit at least four Kates in them. *sigh*

Head injury.

Oh God I bet you would be. The end of any relationship is bloody draining, let alone such a big one. Treat yourself kindly! Even with the best intentions it's a sucky sucky situation.

I reread my post. You probably didn't need my advice! Sorry if it was unwarranted. If I could post owl pics from my mobile I would have done that instead! Best wishes x

Hey, that is a rough week. I don't have an owl for you, but I wanted to say that I was 17 when my parents divorced and the thing that made it hardest for me was that they both tried to win me and my sisters over by telling us their side. I didn't want to take sides, I wanted to love both my parents. As a parent now I…

Ha! I virtually puke when I hear the phrase “yummy mummy”! I chose to be called mama, just to be different! I found that I really struggled with feeling overwhelmed until I started introducing my baby to solid foods at 6 months. Just having him be a *tiny* bit less dependant on my body have me a wee bit more autonomy…

Same thing has happened to me when I’ve been out of work for a while. My attention span and mental discipline muscles just disappear. You’ll get them back! I used to warm up by doing just one sentence at a time. Feels useless but I kind of likened it to getting my fitness back after a long convalescence.

Accurate.

Oh this is awful. Happened to me two months ago at a B&B. Luckily the bath was right next to the toilet so I could vom into the bath. The B&B didn't have any emergency rapid cleanup crew though, that was just up to me, ugh.

This is hilarious! It looks to me like there's a diva who didn't bother going to any rehearsals.

Oh God. A friend of mine is gluten free, sugar free, vegan. Going out for dinner, or even for a coffee, is just about impossible unless I agree to go to this one hippie vegan place and eat organic quinoa.

Tough crowd.