It mostly depends on whether the insecurity is warranted or not. Not all insecurities are equal. Insecurity is a feeling of a lack of security. Having your fiance of five years sneaking around seeing a guy that she used to be intimate with and admits to having feelings for is definitely a justified reason to have a…

And as far as emotionally cheating goes...

I should be reading “Way” into this. Sitting there and acting like being willfully oblivious is the correct thing to do clearly means that you arent reading into it enough. What do you want the guy to do ? Hire a PI ? There is a fine line between unnecessary insecurity and justified insecurity. There is also a large…

Hes not being jealous if the suspicion is warranted, and it is definitely warranted in this case. And, technically speaking, she is already emotionally cheating on him regardless of whether or not they have engaged physically. And this weird social stigma about jealousy being applied to everything and their mommas is…

Person + ex(feelings for ex) + secretive communique and secretive meetings is in no way, shape, or form going to = something good. Such a stark avoidance of the self perception an social stigma of jealousy (which is often used incorrectly) isnt going to change that.

It is on her though. She is essentially emotionally cheating on him already, even if not physically (although, from the sound of it, thats likely too). For starters, especially after 5 years, she should not be seeking any kind of relationship with someone that she has feelings for while she has a fiance (or boyfriend,…

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