LOL

This is actually a really great solution and it’s funny because I often practice “Yes, and” in my personal life to make sure that I am actively listening and contributing to conversations in a meaningful way. Thank you for sharing the tip!

I thought there were some really decently placed jokes in there relating to how blatant sociopathic drive is treated in this society - honestly it was good.

I get this too. One of the things I hear constantly in reviews is “People just want to know you”. Which I get. And it’s fine. I just never know when to start blurting out personal information about myself. I do so, in small doses when the conversation allows but I’ve never really been one to walk into a room and be…

Right? I was totally thinking what a weird photo to use cause it was pretty clear this dude was a total sociopath.

Oh totally I believe those play a role too, but I feel the rules are arbitrary personally because they seemed to change throughout history and are also dependent on things like religion. Some men can have many wives, some men cannot etc etc

Your opinion is fine you’re assumption that I said he did is a little wack though

That was just an example, so yes to answer your petty question.

No one is saying they aren’t. For fucks sake, what I am saying is that wrathful public accountability thing seems to breed more lying and deception in the first place. If we could accept that people do their best and a woman who allows her husband to have other sexual partners isn’t wrong then I bet we’d see a lot…

What I can’t be candid about the fact that some people can’t be monogamous no matter how much they want to be? Or their partners want them to be? Or their family, friends, society wants them to be?

Okay. Clearly you are part of the problem.

Right and the anger exists because people are CONSTANTLY pressured into thinking they MUST be monogamous. So much so that they agree to it even when they don’t think they are capable. This is the start - it comes BEFORE the lie.

You missed the point entirely and also do not actually really listen to Dan Savage:

Newsflash - people have a really hard time being in long term monogamous relationships and society’s weird, unnecessary and CONSTANT shaking finger makes it harder for people to just be able to admit that to themselves, and find relationships that DO work for them. But SURPRISE when you guilt them into obeying…

I think you’re driving in the wrong lane today.

I would like to be your friend

I was SO on board until he said no flat shoes.

“but if you do genuinely like their art - then by all means go see a movie about the making of it.”

This is my nightmare.

Your race has nothing to do with this.